PSF MAGAZINE - The Redeeming Times

ANNUAL PUBLICATION OF PASTORS’ SEED FAMILY AMERICAS

Empowering Lives, Building the Kingdom...

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UPDATES, INSPIRATIONAL ARTICLES, AND RESOURCES FOR VARIOUS COMMUNITY MEMBERS WITHIN RCCG AMERICAS I.

WELCOME ADDRESS

PASTOR FADEL ADDRESS THE POWER OF GROWTH

CHRISTIAN YOUTH AS THE BEACON OF HOPE

BEYOND REGRET

PSF AMERICAS MISSION & VISION

PARENTING WITH PURPOSE

DEVOTIONAL HIGHLIGHT: FULFILLING GOD’S PURPOSE I

THINKING POSITIVELY IN A LANDMARK YEAR

A NOTE ON FINANCE

THE CURRENCY OF HOPE: TRUSTING GOD’S TIMING WOMEN OF IMPACT

THE REFINING FIRE

BEING A MAN WORTHY OF A PROVERBS 31 WOMAN

FUN FACTS FOR MEN OF FAITH

BREAKING FREE FROM THE P-WORD RECIPE

PSF CORNER

MAXIMIZING YOUR SINGLENESS FOR GOD’S GLORY THE DIVINE PLAYMAKER

THE CHURCH AND SOCIAL RESPONSIBILITY (CSR)

DEVOTIONAL HIGHLIGHT:

KID’S CORNER

WHEN THE KING CHOSE A DONKEY 8 TIPS TO LIVING LONG AND WELL

ADHERENCE TO MEDICATION

LIVING LIFE AS GOD INTENDED KIDNEY HEALTH BLOG MY MEDICATIONS

SUSTAINING YOUR WALK YOU CAN RISE AGAIN BEHIND THE PULPIT INTERVIEW

EXECUTIVES & HODS

STATE TRIBE LEADERS

WELCOME ADDRESS

FOR THE REDEEMING TIMES MAGAZINE

GREETINGS TO PASTORS Seed Family (PSF), and all those reading The Redeeming Times: Empowering Lives, Building the Kingdom. It is with great joy and excitement that we present to you this inaugural issue, where we will continue to share the vision and progress of PSF, celebrating the remarkable children of our workers, ministers, and pastors in RCCG.

First and foremost, thank you for being part of this journey. PSF is a unique organization designed to support, nurture, and empower the children of those who pour into us: our ministers. These seeds are not just the future—they are a key part of the now. Our goal is to provide a community that is firmly founded and rooted in our Lord Jesus Christ, while supporting the holistic growth of every seed in all areas of their life.

The Redeeming Times is a medium that will inspire and empower, providing stories of growth, achievement, and faith. Through this magazine, we hope to offer practical insights, celebrate our accomplishments, and continue to build the kingdom of God with excellence. Our tagline, “Empowering Lives, Building the Kingdom,” embodies this vision perfectly. It’s a reminder that through every word, every story shared, we are investing in the future of God’s kingdom and the lives of each seed.

Importance and Impact of PSF

The importance of PSF cannot be stressed enough. You’ll agree with me that the shaping of young minds is an area where the Devil continually seeks dominion. If this is true for all youth, how much more for those connected to our ministers? But the Devil is a liar. These seeds carry a special mantle, one that comes with unique experiences that shape their realities and responsibilities. We exist to help guide them in discovering Christ for themselves, and, furthermore, to help them tap into their full potential.

We believe that by strengthening the next generation of believers, we contribute directly to the greater mission of the Church, expanding the Kingdom of God one seed at a time.

Our Achievements

Over the years, PSF has made significant strides in providing resources, mentorship, and opportunities for the youth. Some of our past achievements include:

• Youth Empowerment Programs: Hosting impactful events, counseling, and mentorship programs that address real-life issues while deepening their relationship with Christ.

• Community Building: Fostering a sense of belonging and commu-

nity through regular events and initiatives that promote unity and spiritual growth.

These milestones are just the beginning of the great work God is doing in PSF. But none of this is possible without the support of our entire RCCG family. We encourage everyone to continue supporting PSF in any way possible— whether through prayer, volunteering, or donations. Every effort, no matter how small, contributes to the bigger mission.

Theme of the Year: “Deeper”

Our theme for this year, and for this year’s convention, is ‘Deeper’—a theme that draws inspiration from the parable of the sower. In this parable, we are reminded to be the right kind of soil—clingy, deeply rooted, and fertile, allowing God’s word to grow and transform our lives (Matthew 13:1-23; Mark 4:1-20; Luke 8:1-15).

In 2025, our focus is on going deeper in our relationship with Christ. This means cultivating deep spiritual roots through intimacy with God, answering the call He’s placed on our lives, serving others, and more. Just as a seed needs good soil to thrive, we need a deep relationship with God to bear lasting fruit.

This year, PSF will continue to encourage our seeds to ‘dig deeper’ in their

walk with Christ, ensuring that they are firmly rooted and established in Him, ready to face whatever life may throw at them with strength and resilience.

How You Can Help

To our dear supporters and readers, your role in this mission is invaluable. Here are some ways you can help PSF thrive:

• Prayer: Continue praying for the seeds of PSF, for their growth, safety, and divine guidance.

• Volunteering: Offer your time and skills to mentor, teach, or assist in organizing events.

• Donations: Financial contributions go a long way in helping us run programs, scholarships, and initiatives for our seeds.

• Spread the Word: Share the vision of PSF with others so that more families and children can benefit from our programs.

In closing, thank you once again for your unwavering support. Together, with the support and guidance of the holy Spirit, we will empower lives and build the kingdom of God, one seed at a time.

May God continue to bless you richly, and may your roots in Him deepen this year in Jesus Name!

With love and blessings,

Welcome Address

2025 Pastors’ Seed Forum Americas 1 Magazine Launch

PSF Americas’ magazine. I am certain you remember the journey that led you to this milestone on this launch of the inaugural edition of the Pastors’ Seed Forum Ame ricas’ magazine. surprising challenges. Rest assured that you don’t have to face any of it alone. Your heavenly

When you can’t face one more challenge or inconvenience, the truths and encouragement in

Yours in Christ’s Service,

THE POWER OF GROWTH

RCCG THE AMERICAS 1

GREETINGS TO THE RCCG Pastors’ Seed Forum in RCCG The Americas 1. Your aim to inspire, uplift, and offer hope to all regardless of age, gender, or ministry involvement is indeed commendable. I am honored for this opportunity to contribute to this maiden publication on “The Power of Growth.”

In discussing the power of growth, as the Continental Administrator, I will focus on recent, current, and future growth in both the physical and spiritual arenas of RCCG The Americas 1. We continue to plant parishes both within and without the regional structures in our “Americas for Christ” drive. This leads to a perpetual occurrence

of souls saved in local parishes and at calendared events all year round. Physical growth primarily stems from developments on our Campground in Floyd, TX.

Our 20,000-seater Pavilion is now fully equipped with HVAC to allow for its rental use by other groups, including ministries and school districts. A new prayer house is currently being added to the existing prayer chapel. More standardized outdoor sport facilities have been built for use in both recreational and intramural sports. Our Redemption Resorts is undergoing renovations of its own to ensure that we can continue to provide stellar services with accommodation. Finally, there are

100 housing units in the works and building will commence very soon. Finally, our children’s summer camp project with theme “The African Safari” will commence this summer.

These show that as much as God has given us the mandate to grow, replenish the earth, and have dominion over it, we must do our part diligently and faithfully for the Covenant to be upheld. I pray that this inspires and empowers us to continue in Kingdom pursuits as the Holy Spirit provides us direction, in Jesus’ Name.

Yours sincerely,

Pastor ‘Lanre Sobo

Continental Administrator, The Americas 1, RCCG.

THE POWER OF GROWTH

CHRISTIAN YOUTH AS A BEACON OF HOPE

Pastor Manita Fadel

First Lady and Co-laborer in Ministry at RCCGNAO.

ICELEBRATE THE CHRISTIAN youth of today because as the next generation of leaders, their future is bright and will be impactful. In our current world that is filled with darkness, uncertainty, and chaos, our youth are emerging as a beacon of hope to the young and old alike. These young individuals, armed with the love of Christ and a passion for serving others, are shining brightly in their communities, schools, and families.

They exemplify the scripture found in Matthew 5:14-16 which says, “You are the light of the world… let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your father in heaven.”

As the next generation of leaders, Christian youth are uniquely positioned to make a positive impact on the world. They are unapologetic about their faith, unwavering in their commitment to Christ, and unrelenting in their pursuit of justice and compassion.

One of the most significant ways Christian youths are being a beacon of hope is through their commitment to serving others. They are volunteering at local food banks, participating in mission trips, and advocating for social justice causes. By putting their faith Christian youth are demonstrating the love of Christ in practical and meaningful ways. They are putting into action the scripture which says to “love our neighbor as yourself” (Matthew 22:39).

Another way Christian youth are shining as a beacon of hope is through their witness and evangelism. In a world where many are searching for meaning and purpose, Christian youth are boldly sharing the Gospel message with their peers. They are using social media, hosting Bible studies, and engaging in conversations about faith to spread the hope of Christ.

Moreover, Christian youth are also being a beacon of hope by living out their faith in their daily lives. They are standing up for what is right, even when it’s hard, and refusing to compromise their values and principles. By being salt and light in their schools, communities, and families, Christian youth are inspiring others to do the same.

As the Bible says, “Don’t let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith and in purity” (1 Timothy 4:12). Christian youth are taking this verse to heart, embracing their role as leaders and examples, and shining brightly for all to see.

In conclusion, Christian youth are a beacon of hope in a world that desperately needs it. They are living out their faith with authenticity, passion, and purpose, inspiring others to do the

same. As we look to the future, it’s clear that Christian youth will play a vital role in shaping the world and spreading the hope of Christ.

BEYOND REGRET:

Restoring Trust and Rebuilding Relationships After Betrayal

PART 1 Beyond Regret, I Press Towards The Mark

“Brethren, I count not myself to have apprehended; but this one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind and reaching forth unto those things which are before, I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus.”

- Philippians 3:14 KJV

Regret can be two-sided.

On one hand, regret can be the feeling experienced by someone who has been hurt and betrayed by someone who was once trusted. On the other hand, regret can be the feeling experienced by the betrayer or perpetrator. In both instances, regret can be a negative emotion shrouded by deep sadness and remorse. Judas no doubt regretted the classic act of betraying the Lord Jesus (Matthew 27:3). Nevertheless, his approach to regret produced more damage than good. The price tag for his actions was of no benefit to him in the end, as he hung himself. If he

had the opportunity to be counselled by the right people, perhaps he might have taken a cue from Peter, whose regret produced repentance and a harvest in the end. But he didn’t.

Like Judas, a lot of people who betray trust and loyalty live to regret their actions. But they never summon the courage to repent or ask forgiveness from those they have wronged. Nevertheless, as a victim of betrayal, does this then give you the right to perpetually remain in the state of

“To attain promotion in God, we do not only forget our past accomplishments (knowing they tend to slow us down), but we also forget the pains and hurts of the past and move on.”

disappointment or hurt? I think not!

Jesus Christ moved on. How was he able to rise above this? By developing

a system where those who trespass against us are genuinely forgiven in advance (Matthew 6: 12, Matthew 18: 21-35).

As a person betrayed, Job was full of regrets. Albeit in his reflections, he remained open to God’s correction and intervention. He pictured a future where he would come out as gold (Job 23:10). And indeed, he came out victorious.

By the same token, those of us who have the opportunity to read these stories can learn from the lives of those who have gone before us. Beyond regret, we must forget the past and press on towards the mark of a higher calling. To attain promotion in God, we do not only forget our past accomplishments (knowing they tend to slow us down), but we also forget the pains and hurts of the past and move on (Hebrews 12:1). Beyond regret, we heal! We move! We press! And we bounce back!

PART 2

Restoring Trust

There is now the even more complex and difficult part of restoring trust towards a backstabber or someone

who has betrayed you.

Many find it difficult to distinguish the fine line between being stupid and being a Christian who should turn a cheek. Here’s the simple rule. You only restore a relationship that passes the test of true repentance. Let’s begin with David and Absalom as the first case study.

Absalom’s return to the palace was orchestrated by servants who capitalised on David’s desire to be reunited with his son (2 Samuel 13:39). Like David, many begin to long for a restoration of a relationship that may have had some elements of toxicity. Why? Absalom was charismatic and charming. The Bible records that Absalom was extremely handsome and likeable. “From the crown of his head to the sole of his feet, there was no blemish in him” (2 Samuel 14:25). Some people compensate for terrible character traits with steeze, good looks, charisma, and charm. But is it usually worth it if the heart is filled with craftiness and wickedness? You decide.

Now, if you look closely at Absalom, you would discover that he had no shred or ounce of repentance or remorse. He never regretted his actions; he had no desire to tone down his excessive temper. Never for once was he sorry. Never for once did he seek an opportunity to apologise to his father. Instead, he eventually nursed ambitions to usurp his father’s throne, not minding what it could cost or the number of soldiers that would die if things heated up. In 2 Samuel 14:30, we see the same temper and wickedness of heart when he instructs his servants to burn down the field of the very man who orchestrated his return from exile. Therefore, restoration of trust should only be reconsidered where there is genuine repentance. This leads to the question of “How do we judge or assess genuine repentance and remorse?” That is the difficult part because only God can assess genuine repentance and remorse. There is no X-ray in the world capable of telling us when repentance is sincere. “But there is a spirit in man, and the inspiration of the Almighty giveth them understanding” (Job 32:8).

We cannot succeed at relationships with others if our relationship with the Holy Spirit is weak or malnourished. Proverbs 20:27. “The spirit of a man is the lamp of the LORD, searching all the inner depths of his heart.” The Holy Spirit is not only a Comforter and Teacher. He is also our helper. The Holy Spirit is the candle that searches the place where eyes cannot see. When we disengage from the ministry of the Holy Spirit by giving more room to distractions, we do ourselves great disservice.

A second case study on the restoration of trust is the story of Joseph and his brothers. First, in Genesis 41:21, they acknowledged their fault in

selling Joseph into slavery. Why is acknowledgement important? David said, “Finally, I confessed all my sins to you and stopped trying to hide my guilt. I said to myself, “I will confess my rebellion to the LORD.” And you forgave me! All my guilt is gone” (Psalm 32:5).

For repentance to be genuine, the wrongdoing must be acknowledged, and secondly, the wrongdoing must be confessed. Lastly, there must be a commitment to never do it again. Anyone who cannot come to terms with the wrong they’ve done will do it again. In the case between Joseph and his brothers, we see the change. We see the acknowledgement of their past mistake, and we see their commitment and dedication to see that it doesn’t happen a second time. We take note of these changes in Genesis 43:9 and Genesis 44:33. When an opportunity came to discard the father’s new favourite, Judah was prepared to

For repentance to be genuine, the wrongdoing must be acknowledged, and secondly, the wrongdoing must be confessed. Lastly, there must be a commitment to never do it again.

sacrifice his life instead. This was a drastic U-turning, coming from the very man who suggested that Joseph should be sold into slavery in Genesis 37:26-27.

PART 3

Rebuilding Relationships After Betrayal

Commentators in Global Affairs and International Relations (IR) emphasise that there are three major components to conflict resolution. These are (1) Peace Making, (2) Peace Keeping, (3) Peace Building.

IR scholars tell us that peacemaking focuses on actively negotiating an end to a conflict through diplomacy. Peacekeeping has to do with the deployment of forces or a third party to maintain a ceasefire and to stabilise a conflictridden environment. While peacebuilding involves the process of rehabilitation, reconstruction, and rebuilding.

By the same token, broken relationships require a process of healing, restoration, and rebuilding. In the case of David and Absalom,

Peace-building involves the process of rehabilitation, reconstruction, and rebuilding. broken relationships require a process of healing, restoration, and rebuilding.

neither party was willing to put in the work and effort to rebuild the relationship. David restored Absalom but failed to rebuild the relationship. Nature abhors a vacuum. As a result, Absalom

focused on betraying his father further instead of rebuilding their relationship.

In contrast, Jesus Christ made it a point of duty to restore and rebuild his relationship with Peter. Before his resurrection, we clearly see that things ended on a bad note. Even though Jesus harboured no ill will towards Peter, any further engagement had to be done in a tidy fashion. We see this in the Gospel according to St. John 21:1-19.

First, Jesus re-enacts the picture of their first meeting. By recreating the scenario where they first met, Jesus opened the window for a flashback on how things used to be. Remember that at Jesus and Peter’s first meeting, there was a boat, a fisherman, and the Lord of the oceans. Peter had toiled all night and caught nothing. But when Jesus stepped in, his fortune turned for good. Secondly, Jesus ate with his disciples. The art of communion and fellowship produces a bond of unity when it is done with the right people.

Thirdly, Jesus gave Peter a chance to retract his betrayal. A wise man once pointed out that Peter was compelled to profess his love for Jesus again. For every time Peter denied Jesus, he was given another opportunity to affirm his commitment and love for God.

Where we have said hurtful things about those whom we care about, it is needful to undo such actions through positive words of affirmation and healing. “For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you profess your faith and are saved” (Romans 10:10).

Finally, rebuilding a broken relationship can be aided by a prophetically led gift and by prayers. In Job 42:7-9. God instructs the friends of Job to take 7 bullocks and 7 rams to Job. This was the precursor to restoration. Job, in

turn, had the responsibility to accept their gift and the responsibility to pray for them. Based on these actions, the Lord turned the captivity of Job and restored his lost glory. Reconciliations without a sacrifice and prayer are only one step. To successfully rebuild, one must be willing to make the effort and put in the work, as this fosters growth for both parties.

BEYOND REGRET:

PSF Americas

Rooted in Faith, Growing in Purpose, Fulfilling Destiny Faith. Growth. Community.

VISION:

To inspire and empower a generation of youth from pastor, deacons, and ministers families to lead with purpose, integrity, and faith, making a positive impact in the Church and the world, while bridging the gap between young people and church leaders.

MISSION:

• Equip young people to live out their faith with confidence and integrity.

• Provide practical support to help youth navigate their careers, relationships, mental health, and spiritual growth.

• Create a community of mentorship, connection, and inspiration, both in-person and online.

• Organize impactful programs that address real-life topics such as:

• Personal growth and holiness

• Career development and financial empowerment

• Healthy relationships and social influence

• Leadership, service, and spiritual growth

• Foster partnerships with RCCG ministries and other organizations to extend our reach globally.

• Engage a diverse range of professionals and speakers to inspire and challenge youth in their faith journey.

Faith

This ties directly to the core of the mission: equipping and inspiring youth to live by strong Christian values. It reflects both spiritual development and the foundation upon which everything else is built.

PSF INITIATIVES

Growth

This covers both personal and spiritual growth—helping the children of ministers to grow in their faith, leadership, and purpose. It also represents progression, not just spiritually but in terms of career, relationships, self-development, etc.

Community

This captures the essence of connection and mentorship, which is key to bridging generational gaps and creating a sense of belonging. It emphasizes the support system, fellowship, and the unity you’re aiming to build among the youth, pastors, and church leaders.

Faith

• Christian values workshops and programs: With focus on Holiness, Prayer, Purpose, The Holy Spirit (Baptism and Understanding), and Service/ Serving

• Mentorship: Peer-mentorship/ small groups, Youth/Young Adult/Youth Pastors - Pastors

Growth

• Leadership: Workers Retreats, Bi-annual workers meeting + onboarding

• Career: Workshops and Easy access to Mentorship

• Academics: Sharing of resources and scholarships websites

• Financial Workshops and educational seminars

• Entrepreneurship: Training and Business-Hub

• Life Skills: Social Skills and Etiquette & Health and Wellness (Mental health, stress management, fitness, and nutrition)

• Talent: The Creative Arts

Programs and Public Speaking

• Spiritual: Baptismal Class, School of Disciples, Biweekly Prayers, Prayer Marathons, Prayer Workshops

Community

• Interest-Based Small Groups

• Collaborative Events: Pairing up with RCCG Youth or YAYA to bring to life collaborative events like concerts, kickbacks, etc.

• CSR: Community outreaches and Evangelism

THE REDEEMING TIMES is the official magazine of PSF America — an inspired, faith-filled annual publication designed to uplift hearts, spotlight kingdom impact, and build spiritual legacy within the RCCG Americas community.

Our vision is to create a publication that connects and resonates with every member of RCCG Americas 1—across all ages, backgrounds, and levels of ministry involvement. We seek to inspire, uplift, and bring hope to every reader. Through the unique perspective of Pastor’s Seeds, we are committed to uncovering and celebrating the gifts, wisdom, grace, excellence, and anointing that God has poured into the RCCGNA family.

Each edition speaks to the times we live in while declaring God’s redeeming power at work.

“Celebrating the grace, gifts, and glory of God within the RCCGNA family — through the eyes of Pastor’s Seeds.”

PARENTING WITH PURPOSE:

How to Raise Godly Children in a Dark World

AS A PARENT, I’ve learned that raising children is both the most challenging and most rewarding journey we’ll ever go through in life. It’s a journey filled with unexpected turns, moments of pure joy, and occasional struggles. But through it all, one thing I have learned and remains constant is that - our calling as parents to raise children who understand their purpose in God’s grand design is a very important one and shouldn’t be treated casually.

Contrary to what we sometimes believe, parenting isn’t about creating perfect children. It’s mostly about guiding them to understand their identity in Christ, God’s love, His plan for their lives, and their unique place in His kingdom. There’s no such thing as perfect parenting, because we have all been tasked individually with the unique responsibility of each child. What we should instead strive after is godly parenting which involves simple, consistent acts of love, faith, and intentional guidance.

Dear believers and fellow parents, when God entrusts us with children, He doesn’t just give us a blessing – He gives us a mission. Proverbs 22:6 reminds us to, “Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.”

This is a profound principle of godly parenting I have held dear to my heart as a father to 4 amazing gems and I hope this article properly conveys my biggest lessons, joys and commitment to purposeful parenting.

RAISING LIGHT IN A DARK WORLD

(MATTHEW 5:14-16)

My experience as a pastor has given me the rare privilege to counsel adults who were victims of ungodly parenting and it aches my heart to see the hurts and scars some of them have had to heal from. Listen, God’s biggest goal from your marriage is the godly seeds He raises through you. The enemy is also aware of this so

he would often attack the marriage to affect the children -no child grows up in a broken home without struggling with feelings of abandonment and low self-worth as an adult. Even though restoration can still be made possible through God’s word, the years of hurt and pain could have been properly avoided.

Parenting isn’t about creating perfect children. It’s about guiding them to understand their identity in Christ, God’s love, His plan for their lives.

Godly children are like light in a twisted, corrupt world that constantly denies God. Because they’ve been raised to acknowledge God and imbibe Christian principles in their daily life, it is easier to make a difference for God amongst their peers who may not have the same upbringing. No wonder God was particular about releasing trans-generational secrets to Abraham! Genesis 18:19 says, “For I know him,

that he will command his children and his household after him, and they shall keep the way of the Lord, to do justice and judgement; that the LORD may bring upon Abraham that which he hath spoken of him.”

Our gift of salvation and knowledge of God isn’t just for ourselves or the ministries He has entrusted to us.

As a true minister of the gospel and parent, He needs us to teach and instill godly values into our children so they can grow into adults who recognize their purpose in God’s design.

UNDERSTANDING THE SPIRITUAL WARFARE IN PARENTING

Parenting is not just a biological or social responsibility, it’s a profound spiritual battle. We’re not just raising children; we’re raising lights who will illuminate a twisted dark world that needs the Lord. Psalms 127: 5b talks about how a man’s children will answer enemies at the city gate; “............they shall not be ashamed, but they shall speak with the enemies in the gate”

This understanding that we are raising watchmen and spiritually discerning children transforms our approach from mere guidance to spiritual mentorship.

THE BATTLEFIELD OF IDENTITY

The battlefield of identity is one where parents need to take a serious stand against the enemy preying over little children. It’s no news that we live in a world that constantly bombards our children with false messages about worth, identity, and purpose. It constantly tries to mislead them into believing

ideologies and information that the Lord has not said concerning them.

Children will now often engage in an internal struggle to understand who they are. It is our role as parents to consistently remind and reinforce their God-given identity according to the word of God through one-on-one teaching, prayer and community.

Modern children also face unprecedented challenges conveyed through social media pressures, constant comparison within peers, and shifting moral values. These external forces can quickly erode a child’s sense of self-worth and spiritual foundation so we must learn to be parents who are proactive and not merely reactive.

SPIRITUAL WARFARE STRATEGIES FOR PARENTS

ARMOR OF GODLY PARENTING

Ephesians 6:10-18, gives us a perspective into godly principles that can be used to equip our children spiritually;

- Belt of Truth: Help children learn honesty and truthfulness as a biblical principle that will protect them from the tricks of the enemy

- Breastplate of Righteousness: Teach them that righteousness with God is a gift of God through salvation. That they can approach God and talk to Him no matter what happens.

anywhere else. That Jesus died so we can all be at peace with God.

- Shield of Faith: Help them build resilience against doubt, unbelief and fear by developing a foundation that teaches them to put their faith in Jesus.

- Helmet of Salvation: Reinforce that the first and most important identity we can have is to become a child of God. And that this can only be made possible when we believe in His birth, death and resurrection as a plan to save us.

- Sword of the Spirit: Teach them God’s word through biblical affirmations, devotions, quizzes and memory verses.

- Shoes of the Gospel of Peace: Teach them that there is a kind of peace given to God’s children that can’t be found

Many children today are spiritually wounded before they even understand what’s happening. They absorb negativity, experience trauma, and battle mental health challenges. Our role is to be healers but most importantly, protectors! You are your children’s first prophet, speak life, potential, and purpose into their future.

1. Create a Spiritual Foundation

Raising godly children starts with making faith tangible. This of course doesn’t mean endless sermons or forced devotionals. Instead, it’s about integrating faith into everyday moments by sharing personal stories of God’s faithfulness, praying together during both challenging and joyful times and allowing your children to see your authentic relationship with God.

2. Embrace Imperfection with Grace

what happened?” “How can we support you? How can we bring God’s wisdom into this situation?”

3. Listen More Than You Speak

Genuine listening is a profound act of love. Children need to know their thoughts and feelings matter. By listening, we create safe spaces for them to explore their faith, ask questions, and grow spiritually without fear of being shut up and judged.

4. Model Integrity and Authenticity

the difference between worldly influences and godly wisdom, develop empathy and compassion in relating with others and creating healthy boundaries they can easily communicate to others.

6. Family Spiritual Workshops & Personal Development

Let’s be honest, there’s no perfect parent or perfect child. Your children will make mistakes, and so will you. The key is creating an environment of unconditional love and consistent grace. When your child struggles, resist judgmental opinions and feedback. Instead, ask, “How do you feel about

Children learn more from what they see than what they hear. Your life is the first Bible they’ll read. When they see you responding to challenges with faith, handling conflicts with love, and living with integrity, they’ll be naturally drawn to understand the source of your strength and ask questions. You can then use those moments of curiosity to teach about faith.

“Many children today are spiritually wounded before they even understand what’s happening. You are your children’s first prophet, speak life, potential, and purpose into their future.”

5. Emotional and Spiritual Intelligence

Raising resilient children involves developing emotional and spiritual intelligence that allows them to recognize and manage their emotions, understand

It is important to spend time together as a family for monthly, bi-monthly or annual family spiritual retreats, open discussions about faith challenges to create safe spaces for questions and doubts. You can also work with each child to identify their spiritual gifts, set personal spiritual goals, create accountability and celebrate spiritual milestones.

7. Mentorship

No parent can be everything to their child. Cultivate a network of godly mentors who can provide additional perspective in specific areas of interest or struggle. Mentorship can also be a great discipleship strategy that teaches them to use technology as a tool to explore faith-based apps and online resources and implement healthy media consumption. Make them accountable to healthy screen time boundaries too.

8. Discipline with Love and Biblical Wisdom

Discipline, when done with love and biblical wisdom can be a tool for children to learn values, morals, and the difference between right and wrong. As a parent you will need to unlearn the mentality that says discipline has to inflict pain. The goal of discipline is not to control, but to guide, teach, and ultimately help your children develop internal moral compasses aligned with God’s teachings.

9. Cultivate Sibling Love and Lifelong Bonds

Nurturing the love and bond among your children is a gift that will benefit them and you as a parent throughout their lives. This involves teaching empathy, mutual respect, and creating an environment where siblings learn to support and cherish one another.

Sibling relationships are unique and powerful, and by teaching your children to love and care for each other, you are providing them with lifelong companions who will stand by their side in good times and bad times.

You have been Called to do Parenting with Purpose!

Allow me to reiterate this again, parenting with purpose is not about achieving perfection, but about consistent, intentional spiritual investment into your children.

It’s a journey of grace, learning, and continuous transformation for you and

your children.

I need you to never forget what you have read today, that parenting is a unique calling and your commitment to it will shape generations to come. Every prayer, every conversation, every moment of guidance is a seed planted towards the destiny and fulfillment of your child’s purpose.

No parent should walk this journey alone. Seek support from your church, parent support groups, and create a network of godly influences for your children.

Parenting is a shared responsibility, and it was never designed to be carried by just one person. While single parenting is often a challenging reality for many, it’s important to acknowledge that the role of raising children was intended for both a father and a mother. To those who are raising their children alone, my heart goes out to you—may the Lord strengthen you and provide the help you need.

“Parenting is not just a biological or social responsibility, it’s a profound spiritual battle.

However, for married couples, it is crucial to recognize the impact of a united and healthy marriage on the future of their children. Choosing to work on and sustain your marriage is not just for your sake but for the well-being and stability of your children, who rely on both parents to thrive.

A PRAYER FOR PARENTS

Lord, we come before you humble and hopeful. We will stop fussing over making perfect children, we realign our hearts to Your guidance so we can raise purposeful and godly children. Give us wisdom beyond our understanding, patience beyond our limits, and love that reflects Your unconditional grace. Transform our parenting from a task to a calling. Give us the courage to stand firm in Your truth as we raise godly seeds that honor you in a faithless world. Let our love for these children reflect Your infinite grace. Guide their steps and protect their hearts from the wiles of the enemy. Reveal to them Your purpose in their lives.

Amen.

Pastor Ayodeji Anifowose

FULFILLING GOD’S PURPOSE I

Memorise: See, I have this day set thee over the nations and over the kingdoms, to root out, and to pull down, and to destroy, and to throw down, to build, and to plant. Jeremiah 1:10

Read: Jeremiah 1:1-10

Bible in one year: Mark 9:14-10:45, Job 19:13-29

MESSAGE

SEVERAL PASSAGE OF the Bible confirms the fact that every human being was originally created by God and born into this word to fulfil God’s purpose. Colossians 1:16 says;

“For by him were all things created, that are in heaven, and that are in earth, visible and invisible, whether they be thrones, or dominions, or principalities, or powers: all things were created by him, and for him:” Colossians 1:16

There is nothing like an afterthought with God. Everything He does is purposeful and deliberate. Not only that, He has everything to the minutest detail, precisely tied to time. Ecclesiastes 3:1 says;

“To everything there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven:”

From Adam and Eve, to Noah, Abraham, Joseph, Moses, and all the prophets and Kings in the Bible, they all were precisely programmed to come and go according to God’s ultimate plan. There is no randomness with God; all things that have ever happened on earth and in heaven were ordered according to His unsearchable wisdom. Act 15:18 says;

God has setup each of us for His purpose in this generation. Are you fulfilling God’s purpose for your life?

“Known unto God are all his works from the beginning of the world.”

For example, John the Baptist was selected by God to prepare the way for the Lord by announcing His arrival, confronting the sinfulness and rebellion of that generation and by preaching repentance of sins. Jeremiah’s purpose as a prophet of God was clearly described in Jeremiah 1:1-10. These two prophets were able to fulfil God’s purposes; they did not at any time jettison their responsibilities.

John the Baptist perfectly prepared the way for the Lord without taking upon Himself any additional responsibility beyond that which was ordained from heaven. Immediately he identified Christ, he made it public, he was ready to decrease and stay in the shadows as Jesus began to increase. Bible scholars have several interpretations about the real cause of his death, but at the end, Jesus declared him as the greatest man that ever lived. His greatness must have been tied to the fulfilment of God’s purpose for his life.

Jeremiah on the other hand was deliberately setup by God as the national prophet to the nation of Israel in his generation. It was a period of apostasy and God was determined, after many unheeded warnings, to deal with the children of Israel according to their doings. Jeremiah was set over the kingdom of Israel to root out, pull down, destroy, and throw down. He was also permitted to build and plant. The Bible confirmed that though Jeremiah wept much for his beloved country, he faithfully discharged his duties without fear or favour.

God has also setup each of us for His purpose in this generation. Are you fulfilling God’s purpose for your life?

Prayer Point:

Father, please give me the wisdom, knowledge and boldness to discharge my duties in this world without fear or favour in Jesus Name.

Open Heavens Devotional

By Pastor E. A. Adeboye

Wednesday, 10th February 2016

Thinking Positively in a Landmark Year

HAPPY NEW YEAR, PSF! We thank God for seeing us through 2024 and bringing us into 2025, a landmark year. Through our Father in the Lord, Pastor E.A. Adeboye, God has decreed this year is a landmark year. The Merriam-Webster Dictionary defines “landmark” as “an event or development that marks a turning point or a stage.” God is set and ready to do great and mighty things in our lives this year, and we must partner with him to fully embrace all He has promised for this year. The state of your mind is crucial for participating in and receiving what God has planned for us this year.

This year, you must pay attention to your thoughts and the state of your mind. Do you think of the world from a glass-half-full or glass-half-empty perspective? In other words, do you have an optimistic attitude about life? Do you see the good in situations? People who think optimistically can cope better with stressful situations, feel better generally - physically and psychologically, are more confident, and think more creatively. Thinking positively can

also help you remain joyful. (Proverbs 17:22 [NKJV] “A merry heart does good, like medicine, But a broken spirit dries up the bones.”). Thinking positively does not mean ignoring and putting aside your negative thoughts when they appear. It involves bringing some compassion to your not-so-pleasant thoughts and feelings and choosing how you want to respond to them.

Thinking positively is an active and intentional practice. Here are some ways to help you think positively in this landmark year.

1. Remember who you are in Christ and what God has spoken concerning you. Remember His promises to you in His word. For example, Philippians 4:13[NKJV] “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.”

2. Watch the thoughts you are focusing on. The thoughts we focus on shape how we view and relate to our world. For example, if you focus on the thoughts that you are not good enough, you will feel bad about yourself and behave accordingly and you may let go of a good opportunity be-

Thinking positively involves bringing some compassion to your notso-pleasant thoughts and feelings and choosing how you want to respond to them.

cause you believe you are not good enough. Compare your thoughts with the word of God to see if they align with what God says about you.

3. Surround yourself with positive people and content. Be mindful of the people you spend time with and the content you consume. Philippians 4:8 [NKJV] “Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy-meditate on

these things.” The media content you consume regularly can significantly impact your thoughts and worldview. Be intentional about the media content you consume daily and the people you spend time with.

4. Practice self-compassion. Be gentle and compassionate with yourself. Consider what you would say to a loved one in the same situation as you and then turn that inward. Being overly critical of yourself can hinder growth. For example, instead of saying, “I am not smart enough to figure this out.” say, “This is difficult at the moment, but I can give it another try!”

5. Practice gratitude. I Thessalonians 5:18 [NKJV] “In everything give thanks, for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.” Consider keeping a gratitude journal and making it a daily or weekly practice to write what you are grateful for. Practicing gratitude also helps you focus on the positive aspects of your life.

6. Exercise your faith. II Corinthians 5:7 [NKJV] “For we walk by faith, not by sight.” James 2:17 [NKJV] also

says, “Thus also faith by itself, if it does not have works, is dead.” Step out in faith this year, apply for that job, launch that business, apply to that school, believing that God, who has promised that this year will be a landmark year, will fulfill His word. God has got you.

7. Do not be afraid to ask for help. Ask the Holy Spirit for help when things seem confusing and overwhelming. James 1:5 [NKJV] “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him.” In addition, do not be afraid to seek help from others. Seeking help is not a weakness but a strength. You can always reach out to the PSF Americas1 Counseling department at psfamericas1counseling@gmail. com or 516-908-3511.

I pray this year will be a great and fulfilling one for you in Jesus’ name. God bless you.

A Note on Finance

DEAR PSF, WHETHER you’ve always been curious about finances or it’s a topic you are familiar with, I’m really glad you stumbled on this friendly guide to help you navigate the world of money with wisdom and purpose. So, grab a comfy seat, and let’s explore how faith and good financial habits can go hand in hand.

THE FOUNDATION: STEWARDSHIP

Everything God does is for a purpose. He doesn’t just want to bless us, He wants us to be a blessing and to be good stewards of the things He commits to us, including your finances. Do not see the money in your account as a possession but as a tool to shape your today, plan for tomorrow, and to advance the cause of your Lord and saviour. Being a good steward means using what God gives us wisely for all these things. Remember the parable of the talents? Now ask yourself - Am I a good steward? Am I multiplying the finances He put in my care, or am I just wasting them?

WISDOM IN SPENDING: BEYOND IMPULSE

Being a good steward, as the Bible encourages, extends to how we spend our money. Think critically about your purchases. Do you truly need that new gadget, or is it just a passing desire fueled by trends?

Wise spending isn’t about deprivation; it’s about intentionality. Consider the long-term value of what you buy and whether there are more responsible ways to use your resources. This practice cultivates discernment and helps you avoid unnecessary waste. Action item: Use the 60/20/20 rule.

THE POWER OF SAVING: PREPARING FOR THE FUTURE

Remember the story of the ant in Proverbs? It diligently saved for the future. Saving is a practical and biblical principle. Whether you’re saving for a future goal like college, a car, or just building a financial safety net, the habit of saving teaches you discipline and foresight. It also positions you to be more generous later on when opportunities to give arise. Start small, be consistent, and watch your savings grow over time. Try this new habit - For every fancy thing you buy, save/invest the same amount. If you can’t save the same amount, you can’t afford it.

UNDERSTANDING DEBT: A WORD OF CAUTION

The Bible often speaks about the burdens of debt. While some debt, like for education or a home, might be necessary down the road, it’s crucial to understand its implications. Avoid unnecessary debt, especially for things that lose value quickly. Learn about how interest works and the long-term cost of borrowing. Making informed decisions about debt early on can pave the way for greater financial freedom in the future.

THE TENTH: TITHING AS WORSHIP

As a pastor’s seed, you’ve likely grown up seeing the importance of giving to the church. Tithing, giving a tenth of your income, isn’t just about keeping the lights on or supporting programs. It’s a fundamental act of worship. It acknowledges that everything we have comes from God and expresses our gratitude. As you begin to earn your own money, whether it’s from a part-time job, allowance, or gifts, make tithing a priority. It’s a spiritual discipline that shapes your heart and your perspective on possessions. Remember: it is not just about the needs of the church, it is about your heart and a test of your love for God.

YOUR UNIQUE PERSPECTIVE: MINISTRY AND MONEY

Growing up in a pastor’s family gives you a unique window into the financial realities of ministry. You see the dedication and often the sacrifices your parents make, relying on the generosity of the congregation. This firsthand experience can foster a deep appreciation for financial responsibility and the impact of giving. It can also inspire you to use your own resources to support causes you care about, both within and beyond the church walls. More importantly, it should help you come to a realization that you need to plan well for the future so that you will not need to rely on the generosity of others, and you will rather have enough to advance the kingdom.

A SUGGESTED PLAN:

50/20/20/10

RULE

The rule is a simple way to think about dividing your money after taxes into three categories. It offers a basic framework to help you balance your present needs with your future security and some room for enjoyment. It’s a starting point and can be adjusted based on your circumstances and priorities. Spend 50% on needs - your essential living expenses like rent, utilities, and food. 20% for Savings/Investments/Debt Repayment. 20% for Giving and Wants - helping others and things that make life more enjoyable, such as eating out, entertainment, travel, etc. And Of course, 10% for Tithe.

ALIGNING FINANCES WITH FAITH: A HOLISTIC VIEW

Ultimately, managing your finances isn’t just about balancing numbers; it’s about aligning your resources with your faith and values. It’s about being responsible, generous, and wise in how you handle the blessings God has entrusted to you. Seek wisdom, pray for guidance in your financial decisions, and remember that true wealth is measured not just by what you have, but by the richness of your life and the positive impact you have on the world around you. Dear seeds, you have a powerful opportunity to demonstrate how faith and sound financial practices can work together. Let’s do it.

Your brother in Christ,

Pastor Ayobami S. Edun

THE CURRENCY OF HOPE: TRUSTING GOD’S TIMING

Waiting can be excruciating. It’s the agonizing limbo of uncertainty, where tomorrow remains a shrouded mystery. Hope, our only currency, feels fragile and unreliable. Time, instead of being a friend, becomes an adversary, ticking away relentlessly, draining our patience and eroding our belief in a positive outcome.

Yet, within this crucible of waiting, a profound transformation can occur. Like precious metals refined in fire, we are shaped and molded, prepared for the grand design God has in store.

The scripture in Isaiah 40:31 offers a powerful truth: “But those who trust in the Lord will find new strength. They will soar high on wings like eagles. They will run and not grow weary. They will walk and not faint.” This verse underscores the importance of trust. However, it’s crucial to acknowledged that not every waiting season culminates in success. Some lead to dead ends, leaving us heartbroken and disillusioned.

True waiting, the kind that yields dynamic results, is “waiting in the Lord.” But what does this truly mean? It’s reaching a point where your will aligns perfectly with His, where His desires become your sole focus. This active dependence involves following His guidance, even when the path is unclear.

In the world, we often equate success with constant striving. We run, we push, and we believe that relentless effort guarantees victory. This is

evident in the world of athletics: consistent practice is crucial for success. However, in the spiritual realm, our own strength is insufficient.

We must learn to wait. In this waiting room, we are not stagnant; we are being formed, empowered, and refined.

Let’s consider the example of Jesus in Matthew 26:39: “And he went a little further, and fell on his face, and prayed, saying, O my Father, if it be possible, let this cup pass from me: nevertheless not as I will, but as thou wilt.”

Here, Jesus, facing immense pressure and the weight of impending suffering, encountered the familiar human struggle. He felt the burden, the fear, the overwhelming desire to avoid the impending pain.

This is a familiar point for many of us – the point where we feel like giving up. We may question our strength, our ability to endure. But just as a miner perseveres through the darkness, knowing that valuable treasure lies beneath, we must continue to dig. There is glory ahead.

Jesus, despite His immense suffering, chose to submit: “nevertheless not as I will, but as thou wilt.”

This is the essence of true waiting – complete trust in God’s plan, even when it’s difficult to understand.

WOMEN OF IMPACT

Pastor Margaret Adeyokunnu

ICONGRATULATE PASTORS’ SEED Family America on the auspicious launch of your magazine and thank you for inviting me to contribute to your laudable work. May this magazine please the Lord and impact lives across generations.

There are many ways to approach the topic “Women of Impact,” but from my learning and experience, I would like to focus on four areas:

I. The character of a woman who would be impactful

II. How to operate for impact

III. Pitfalls/Challenges that deteriorate/ obstruct impact

IV. The benefits of being impactful

I. CHARACTER ASSESSMENT OF A WOMAN WHO WOULD MAKE AN IMPACT:

A woman of impact, first and foremost, will be in a deep, loving, and intimate relationship with God. You cannot impact others if God is not formed in you. Here’s what God said in John 15:4-7 (KJV):

“Abide in me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit of itself, except it abide in the vine; no more can ye, except ye abide in Me. I am the vine, ye are the branches: He that abideth in me, and I in

him, the same bringeth forth much fruit: for without me ye can do nothing. If a man abide not in me, he is cast forth as a branch, and is withered; and men gather them, and cast them into the fire, and they are burned. If ye abide in me, and my words abide in you, ye shall ask what ye will, and it shall be done unto you.”

What is obvious in this scripture is that “fruit-bearing” is actually “impact-making.” Fruit-bearing is about working with the Holy Spirit to bring out the best in people.

The life source of the branch is the vine. So, we cannot give what we do not have. If we allow “The Vine” to nourish us and replicate Himself in us, there’s no way our lives will not impact others: it’s Jesus on the inside working on the outside. People will naturally gravitate towards us if they see the goodness of God in us. Without Him, we can do nothing.

The issue then is, how does the “abiding” happen? He answered that in verse 7: “by His Word. Jesus is the Word of God,” so the more we thirst and hunger after Him, the more He will impact us. You cannot represent someone you do not know. His word is His Spirit, and His life is working inside you. We must, therefore, be “Doers” of His word. The truth is this: as we get to know

Jesus more and more, we will become God-fearing and thereby uphold His standards in our conduct and character. There will be no dissonance between what we preach, who we are, or what we exemplify.

Let’s look into other character qualities of a woman of impact.

A woman of impact must be empathetic - that is to say, a woman of impact desires the good of others. According to the Word of God, we will love others as we love ourselves. An impactful woman would see a need and attend to it, and Isaiah 58:7-12 (KJV) narrates this well:

“Is not this the fast that I have chosen? To loose the bands of wickedness, to undo the heavy burdens, and to let the oppressed go free, and that ye break every yoke? Is it not to deal thy bread to the hungry, and that thou bring the poor that are cast out to thy house? When thou seest the naked, that thou cover him; and that thou hide not thyself from thine own flesh? Then shall thy light break forth as the morning, and thine health shall spring forth speedily: and thy righteousness shall go

before thee; the glory of the LORD shall be thy rereward. Then shalt thou call, and the LORD shall answer; thou shalt cry, and he shall say, Here I am. If thou take away from the midst of thee the yoke, the putting forth of the finger, and speaking vanity; and if thou draw out thy soul to the hungry, and satisfy the afflicted soul; then shall thy light rise in obscurity, and thy darkness be as the noonday: and the LORD shall guide thee continually, and satisfy thy soul in drought, and make fat thy bones: and thou shalt be like a watered garden, and like a spring of water, whose waters fail not. And they that shall be of thee shall build the old waste places: thou shalt raise up the foundations of many generations; and thou shalt be called, The repairer of the breach, The restorer of paths to dwell in.”

This scripture speaks to compassion towards others:

• forgive and free people from personal grievances and bondage.

• feed the hungry, house and clothe the poor.

• do not forsake your extended family.

• stop pointing accusing fingers at others.

When we do these impactful deeds, God multiplies His blessings upon us to the point where we “raise up the foundations of many generations.”

James 2: 6 says the same:

“And if you say to your brother, ‘Go in peace, be warmed and filled,’ while you do not provide for the needs of the body, what good is that?”

Genuine and active compassion is evident when you help those in need.

A woman of impact is also a woman of influence: she will stand up for the right cause with dignity and boldness. She is just and fair by the gift of wisdom, and like Deborah, she can be assertive without being overbearing.

Deborah was not easily intimidated, though there were no feminist movements in her time - Judges 4 and 5. Her boldness is exemplary for her time: while men trembled, she rose to the cause of Israel. Small wonder that a whole community was named after her - the Bible says she sat at the Palm

of Deborah - this suggests that though there were likely other palm trees dotting the landscape, the one she sat at became the community’s signage, a reference point by which people recognized the community.

Would your community or organization name itself after you? These days, people do not say “The God of Daddy GO” without a cause. They have seen God in him, and so attach his name to the God for whom he makes an impact.

A woman of impact is also like Abigail (1 Samuel 25), who corrected her husband’s flaws - she did what was right even though she was married to a vile person.

When you do what is right, you will earn the respect of those who believe in justice and judgment for the good of all. It is no small wonder that David saw this quality in her and made her a queen.

II. HOW SHOULD WOMEN PROCESS IMPACT? A WOMAN OF IMPACT OPERATES AT THREE LEVELS:

• In her personal life: Proverbs 31 says it all - a virtuous woman impacts herself first by her diligence: she is industrious, financially savvy, strategic, and a purposeful planner.

• In her family: a woman is impactful on the outside only to the extent of what she has first practiced at home. 1 Tim. 3 11 says, “Wives be grave, not slanderers, sober, faithful in all things.”

A (female!) bishop or wife is known first at home. Read 1 Tim 3: 2-7. Though Timothy alluded to the male gender in this scripture, the same applies to us women, especially women in ministry. Abraham is an excellent example of impact at the family level. God chose him to become our father of faith because of who he was at the family level: “For I know him, that he will command his children and his household after

him, and they shall keep the way of the LORD, to do justice and judgment …” (Genesis 18: 19). When people meet your family, what do they see? Respectful or disobedient children? A contentious woman who brawls against her husband or a submissive wife? A woman who is a talebearer, making other people’s business and plight a gossip forum? The atom of your presence in your home not only smells at home; it will invariably ooze outside.

• In her community: A woman of impact is known in the community that she belongs to, whether it’s your neighborhood, your office, your school, or your church.

Your integrity speaks a thousand words more than you know. Are you reliable? Do you get tasks done cheerfully and promptly? Are you warm and embracing or rash and irreconcilable? Amos 3:3 says, “Shall two walk together if they don’t agree?”

Are you supportive of other people’s ideas, or do you poke holes in what they do to leverage yourself? Are you known as a builder of lives in your “Jerusalem”? When Jesus gave the mandate to “GO,” He instructed the disciples to start at Jerusalem and thereafter go to the uttermost parts of the earth (Matthew 28:19).

What we make of our “Jerusalem” will spread our fame because people will invite us to share our ideas beyond our horizons. You become a consultant to the extent that you’ve achieved results from where you started. You will be voted ombudsman because your fruits or results are evident.

III. PITFALLS / CHALLENGES THAT DETERIORATE IMPACT.

Do not have a domineering spirit. There’s a difference between having dominion and being domineering. Dominion is a gift from God - it comes from

God through the gifts He deposited into you: you can become the world’s best wedding cake designer or be the best in atomic physics.

That gift in you will propel your greatness, so sit at the feet of Christ to discover your gifts and navigate them well. The Bible says, “A man’s gift makes a way for him and brings him before great men” (Proverbs 18: 16). You sustain dominion because you’ve appropriated your gifts well.

Conversely, a domineering person may or may not have a gift but would push others out of the way. You cannot be impactful if people get frustrated when working with you. Drop the attitude of “I know it all” and learn to listen and carefully embrace or agreeably adjust the ideas of others so you can operate in a win-win environment. Be intentional about being a good listener and encourager so that others will be drawn to you.

forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you.”

This scripture points to the need to be patient with people. Realize that God is still working on those around you like He painstakingly worked on you. So, walk gently in the lives of others because not all wounds are visible; those around you may have issues they are dealing with and would withdraw from you if they find you inaccessible. Forgive others easily and apologize when you make mistakes. When you build the trust of those around you, you are impactful.

A Woman of impact desires the good of others. She will stand up for the right cause with dignity and boldness. She is reliable and truthful. She is warm and embracing. She is patient.

Following our salvation, Jesus sent the Holy Spirit to work patiently on us to transform our character, so the testimony of Ephesians 4: 20-32 becomes a reality in us and in the people God wants to reach through us:

“… put off concerning the former conversation the old man, which is corrupt according to the deceitful lusts; and be renewed in the spirit of your mind; … put on the new man, which after God is created in righteousness and true holiness ... And grieve not the holy Spirit of God, whereby ye are sealed unto the day of redemption. Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamor, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice: and be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted,

Avoid contradictions. Be truthful. Your integrity is worth your weight in gold; otherwise, you will not last. Let your yeah be yeah, and your nay, be nay - Matthew 5:37.

Be transparent through truthful living. Ephesians 4: 2529 further says –“Wherefore putting away lying, speak every man truth with his neighbor: for we are members one of another … be angry, and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath: neither give place to the devil. Let him that stole steal no more: but rather let him labor, working with his hands the thing which is good, that he may have to give to him that needeth. Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers.”

Naturally, those around you will call you to leadership when you are impactful. A leader is a leader only because they have followers. If you don’t have followers, then who are you leading? Note

that you can be available without being accessible! Your accessibility is only as good as people can approach you. When you are approachable and agreeable, the goodness of your heart will become evident over time.

IV. THE BENEFITS OF BEING IMPACTFUL

Being impactful is doable. When you are impactful, God will love you exceedingly, both as a person and as a vessel He can use. You will become an asset to the Holy Spirit by which He can touch the lives of others. You will have a multiplier effect as you draw others to Christ.

You will also be promoted because God will open doors for you: Proverbs 22: 29 - “Seest thou a man diligent in his business? He shall stand before kings; he shall not stand before mean men.”

Finally, there is the personal joy and fulfillment of fruit-bearing or making an impact. You will be filled with an inner joy that no one can take away from you. The Holy Spirit will love you because He finds you agreeable and amenable to work with. You will become a treasure in the lives of people and in the Kingdom of God, and your name will be written in the Book of Life.

Pst. Margaret Adeyokunnu President, Women-in-Ministry / Regional Pastor, America 1.

PThe Refining fire

Pastor Damilola Paul Olu-Ayeni

RAISE THE LORD! We give God praise for the opportunity to share some thoughts, by the leading of the Holy Spirit, concerning the topic, the Refining Fire for the PSF Americas magazine. Thank you very much for the privilege. I am deeply humbled and give God praise for the opportunity to share some thoughts and perspectives, guided by the Spirit of God. By the grace of God today, through this article, in this magazine, the Holy Spirit has directed me to share some thoughts about four significant characters or moments in Scripture, and then conclude with a direct message to the youth and the young adults.

As we examine the refining fire of God through scripture, it’s essential to understand that fire announces dispensations, shifts, and, quite frankly, also the cleansing and holiness of God, including, but not limited to, His righteous indignation and the cleansing power that typically accompanies it. When you look at the call of Moses, God first showed him a picture of what the refining of his life would look like. So you look at Exodus 3:2, the Bible says, “And the angel of the Lord appeared unto him in a flame of fire.” So there’s that word again - FIRE. “The Angel of the Lord appeared unto Moses in a flame of fire out of the midst of a bush: and he looked, and, behold, the bush burned with fire”the refining process of the picture of what his life would look like. “The bush burned with fire, and the bush was not

consumed.” That’s really what God wants us to be in PSF, in YAYA, as youth and young adults - you are on fire for God, but the fire does not consume you physically. That’s the picture. We must constantly be on fire for the Lord, but not be physically consumed by His fire. That’s the Moses refining piece; the picture of Moses’ life being refined by the fire of God.

The second example I want to share is from 1 Kings 18:37-39 (NLT), which is the case study of Elijah, specifically the refining process that took place at Mount Carmel by the fire of God. The Bible says in 1 Kings 18:37-39 (NLT), Elijah cried out to God and said, “Oh, Lord, answer me! Answer me so these people will know that you, O Lord, are God and that you have brought them back to yourself.” That word ‘repentance’ refers to the refining process. The purpose of the fire of God in Elijah’s prayer was primarily to bring the people back to God; it was a refining process designed to bring them back to Him, refocus the people of Israel on Him, and refine their thinking. That’s the purpose of fire. Fire refines.

Continuing with 1 Kings 18:38, “Immediately the fire of the Lord flashed down from heaven and burned up the young bull, the wood, the stones, and the dust. It even licked up all the water in the trench!” So, God’s fire burned five elements in the refining process on Mount Carmel: (1) the young bull, (2) the wood, (3) the stones, (4) the dust, and (5) the water. You see, these all represent dimensions of things in

our lives that may not necessarily align with God. There are strange waters that the fire needs to lick up, there are stones that it must burn, there are dust, particles of dirt that must be refined, and that’s what the refining fire does in the life of a believer.

The kind of fire that fell from heaven was hot enough to burn and consume stones, my God! When you find a fire that can consume stones, that is an intense refining fire.

And then finally, in 1 Kings 18:39, “And when all the people saw it, they fell face down on the ground and cried out, ‘The Lord - He is God. Yes, The Lord is God.’” So you see, their minds had been refined, their disposition had been refined. And they were then able to come into the reality of the salvation and the Grace of God. So fire refines, it purges, it renews, it transforms minds, it convicts, and it turns people back to God.

The third case study I want to share on the refining fire is found in Isaiah 6:6-7. This is the case study of Isaiah, the prophet, and his refining process.

Isaiah 6:6-7 (NLT) says, “Then one of the Seraphims flew to me with a burning coal he had taken from the altar with a pair of tongs. He touched my lips with the burning coal of fire and said, ‘See this coal has touched your lips. Now your guilt is removed and your sins are forgiven.’” So again, we see the direct, clear refining process in the life of Isaiah. Before this time, Isaiah had been prophesying and prophesying accurately, I might add. Still, until he was refined and the coals of fire refined his lips, he was not permitted to foretell in powerful dimensions of Christ. And once the refining happened, his message was singular, practically saying, “Repent, for the kingdom of God is at hand”. The same message that John the Baptist would preach. He simply preached and prophesied it in different words, and began to speak about Jesus Christ in a very deep and clear manner.

The refining process transformed Isaiah’s prophetic ministry for the better. Finally, to bring this to a close, let’s discuss the refinement of the early church believers and the refining process that they underwent. The fourth example takes us to the book of Acts. In Acts 2:1-3 (KJV), the Bible says, “And when the day of Pentecost was fully come, they were all with one accord in one place. And suddenly…” (And this is how it always happens with the refining fire of the Lord. It happens suddenly.)

“...And suddenly, there came a sound from heaven as of a rushing, mighty wind, and it filled all the house where they were sitting. And there appeared unto them cloven tongues like as of fire, and it sat upon each of them.”

This was the refining process of the Apostolic and the disciples of the Lord Jesus Christ after the Lord had already ascended. He promised them power from on high, and the power from on high was the refining fire that came in the dimensions of cloven tongues. We know what happened afterwards. The entire Ecclesia was born in the New Testament, and the body of Christ took on a different dimension and shape.

The Holy Spirit will not let me wrap up this article without issuing a warning to the youth and young adults: we must be careful in our dealings with God’s refining fire, understanding that He is Holy and that God is indeed a consuming fire. According to Hebrews 12:29, sometimes the fire of God comes not to refine, but to consume and to judge. The righteous judgment and indignation of the Lord are also marked by fire.

No better example of youth who had to learn this the hard way than the sons of Aaron, Nadab and Abihu. In Leviticus 10:1 (KJV), the Bible says, “And Nadab and Abihu, the sons of Aaron, took either of them his censer, and put fire therein, and put incense thereon, and offered strange fire before the LORD, which He commanded them not.” Some

other manuscripts say they offered unauthorized fire, strange fire, or illegal fire. That’s what happens when we get on the altar of God as youth and young adults, and we begin to do silly things. We must be careful to remember that God is not to be joked with. The result of their offering a strange, illegal, unauthorized fire was this, according to Leviticus 10:2 - “And there went out fire from the Lord and devoured them, and they died before the LORD.” So you see, they offered strange fire. God responded with the refining fire that brought a swift judgment. These youth offered strange fire (but I pray no one in PSF would do so), and God responded with His consuming fire. I pray that the Lord will give us understanding, and I pray that you have been blessed and you have been edified even as by the Spirit of the Lord. Once again, I want to thank the leadership of the PSF in the Americas for this unique privilege and very humbling opportunity. May the grace of the Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirits. God bless you, and I love you

Pastor Damilola Paul Olu-Ayeni

BEING A MAN WORTHY OF A PROVERBS 31 WOMAN

IN A WORLD of productions, shows, concerts, and performances, there’s a simple law that governs the order of things, which often goes unnoticed. That is, the stage is made ready before the introduction of the star. There has never been an occasion when the star was introduced and ready to perform before the stage was made ready. This principle is derived from the Bible. Our God is a God of order. Before creating the fishes, He ensured there was water first, along with birds, air, animals, and earth(ground).

We have all undoubtedly heard about the Proverbs 31 woman, and as men, I’m sure we all desire someone like that: a virtuous woman, a woman of noble character, Godly, spiritual, holy, and loving. We often talk about it and encourage our young ladies to trend in her footsteps.

However, what we don’t often talk about is what it takes to get and keep such a woman. As a man, if you were asked to take an inventory of your life, would you say you have what it takes to host such a woman in your life? Is your

life a proper stage for her to perform and manifest herself?

A Christian man who seeks to please or be a good partner to a Proverbs 31 woman—who is described as virtuous, wise, industrious, and Godfearing—should cultivate qualities that complement and support her character. Here are some of the key qualities:

1. Godliness and Spiritual Leadership

A Proverbs 31 woman “fears the Lord” (Proverbs 31:30), so she will value a man who also prioritizes his relationship with God.

He should lead with humility and spiritual maturity, encouraging her in her own walk with Christ.

2. Integrity and Honesty

She is trustworthy (v.11), so he must be equally trustworthy, walking in truth and righteousness.

His word should be dependable, and his actions consistent with Christian values.

3. Supportiveness

She is hardworking and entrepreneurial (vv.13–24). A good man will support her endeavors, not feel threatened by her strength and productivity.

He celebrates her accomplishments, just as she would his (v.28–29).

4. Respect and Honor

A Proverbs 31 woman is “clothed with strength and dignity” (v.25), and her husband is called to honor and respect her publicly and privately (v.28).

He doesn’t belittle or compete, but praises her contributions and treats her as an equal partner.

5. Wisdom and Discernment

Her life is guided by wisdom and kindness (v.26), so a man of wisdom will be able to engage with her on meaningful levels.

He seeks counsel from God, makes thoughtful decisions, and lives with purpose.

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6. Diligence and Responsibility

She is not idle (v.27), so a man who also works diligently and manages his responsibilities will resonate with her values. He is a provider and protector, not necessarily in a traditional or financial-only sense, but in his overall commitment and reliability.

7. Humility and ServantHeartedness

He should be humble and willing to serve, not seeking dominance but partnership.

Like Christ, he loves sacrificially (Ephesians 5:25–28), placing her needs ahead of his ego.

8. Emotional Strength and Gentleness

A Proverbs 31 woman balances strength and tenderness; she needs a man who is emotionally stable and gentle in spirit. He should be slow to anger, quick to forgive, and kind in his words.

9. Vision and Purpose

He should have a sense of direction and purpose aligned with God’s will, which allows him to lead and build a life with shared values and eternal focus.

10. Encouragement and Joy

She brings joy and confidence to her household. A good Christian man brings life, encouragement, and peace to his home. He finds joy in her, and expresses gratitude often (v.28–29).

Fun Facts for Men of Faith

1. Jesus Worked a Blue-Collar Job

Before starting His ministry, Jesus was a carpenter (Mark 6:3). That means He likely spent years building, lifting, sweating, and working with His hands—just like many hardworking men today.

2. The Bible’s Strongest Man Wasn’t a Warrior—He Was a Nazarite

Samson (Judges 13–16) had supernatural strength not from muscles, but from a vow and obedience to God—until he broke it. His story is both a caution and a call to spiritual discipline.

3. The Bible Mentions Over 100 Men by Name Who Impacted God’s Story

From fishermen to kings, shepherds to prophets, God used all kinds of men to shape His plan. That includes you—no matter your background.

4. King David Was a Musician and Warrior

David could slay giants and write psalms. A reminder that real strength includes emotional depth and spiritual expression.

5. Jesus Chose 12 Ordinary Men to Change the World

His disciples were fishermen, tax collectors, and everyday guys—not scholars or influencers. God calls the

willing, not just the qualified.

6. Paul Walked Over 10,000 Miles to Preach the Gospel

Talk about endurance! The Apostle Paul likely traveled the equivalent of walking from New York to Los Angeles and back—twice.

7. There Are Over 2,300 Verses on Money, Wealth, and Possessions

God cares how men handle finances, stewardship, and generosity. Scripture gives a roadmap for being financially wise and spiritually grounded.

8. God Spoke Through a Donkey (Seriously)

In Numbers 22:28, God opened the mouth of a donkey to speak to Balaam. If He can use a donkey, He can definitely use you.

9. The Bible’s Longest Chapter Is About Loving God’s Word

Psalm 119 has 176 verses, and it’s all about the importance of Scripture. That says something about how central the Word should be to a man’s life.

10. Prayer and Physical Strength Are Linked in Scripture

James 5:16 says, “The prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective.” Spiritual strength starts on your knees.

BREAKING FREE FROM THE P-WORD Victory in the Struggle

Scripture: “No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it.”

- 1 Corinthians 10:13

MEN, LET’S TALK about the struggle. The one that feels isolating, the one that whispers lies of shame and defeat. The struggle with pornography. You are not alone. Many men, even strong men of faith, face this battle. But remember, our struggle does not define us. What defines us is how we rise, how we fight, and how we cling to our Savior.

The enemy wants you to feel isolated, to believe that you’re the only one facing this battle. But the truth is, many have walked this path before you and have found victory in Christ. You are not alone.

God knows your struggle, and He is not surprised by it. He is right there with you, offering His strength, His grace,

and His way out. He promises that He will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear, and He will always provide a way out.

So, how do we overcome?

First, bring it into the light. Confess your struggle to a trusted brother in Christ. James 5:16 tells us to “confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed.” There is power in confession and accountability.

remind you of your identity in Christ and His power within you.

Lastly, never stop trying. Even if you fall, get back up. Proverbs 24:16 says, “for though the righteous fall seven times, they rise again.” Each time you rise, you grow stronger in Christ.

Second, guard your heart and mind. Job 31:1 says, “I made a covenant with my eyes not to look lustfully at a young woman.” Make a covenant with your eyes. Use filters, accountability software, and be mindful of what you allow into your heart and mind.

Third, replace the lies with truth. When temptation comes, fight it with Scripture. Memorize verses that

Men, you are not alone in this struggle. You have a Savior who loves you, who fights for you, and who has already won the victory. Keep fighting, keep rising, and keep clinging to Him.

Prayer: Dear Lord, thank You for Your grace and strength in our struggles. Help us to bring our battles into the light, to guard our hearts and minds, and to cling to Your truth. Remind us that we are not alone, and that victory is found in You. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

RECIPE Gluten-free Blueberry and Lemon Pound Cake

WHEN CAKE IS mentioned, for some of us it is exciting news for the tummy. While for some we start thinking of calories and what it will do to our bodies.

What if I tell you, you can actually have a healthy cake every now and then? That’s right, one that meets your needs of satisfying that guilty pleasure whilst looking after our bodies. This can be done by substituting certain unhealthy ingredients for these healthier ones in your recipes.

Let’s go on a ride to making a delicious gluten-free blueberry and lemon pound cake. But before we dive in, let’s look at some health benefits of some of our ingredients.

BLUEBERRY

Did you know that blueberries are referred to as superfoods? This small but mighty fruit has numerous benefits to our bodies. They are low in calories, improve heart health, brain function, and digestion, along with potential benefits for managing diabetes, reducing inflammation, and supporting overall well-being. They are a good source

of vitamins, minerals, and antioxidants.

SOUR CREAM

Helps with nutrient absorption, potentially aiding in the digestion and uptake of vitamins and minerals, especially those that are fat-soluble. Additionally, some varieties contain probiotics, which can benefit gut health.

GLUTEN-FREE FLOUR

Gluten-free flours are generally easier to digest, which can be beneficial for individuals with sensitive digestive systems or those who experience bloating or gas after consuming gluten. Some gluten-free flours, like brown rice flour and oat flour, are rich in protein and fiber, which can help lower blood sugar levels and reduce body weight. They also contain essential minerals like iron, magnesium, and zinc. You can find various brands at your regular grocery stores like Walmart.

This recipe has a reduced

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sugar content as well. You can either have this for breakfast, with a cup of coffee or freshly pressed juice, try adding this to your kids lunch boxes or placing it in a gift basket as you visit that friend who just had a new baby or is celebrating a milestone. Or better still, have this as a treat to host guests.

METHOD

1. Preheat oven to 350 degrees Faranheit

2. In a mixing bowl, whisk together eggs, sugar and vanilla until fluffy and creamy

3. Melt the butter in a microwave for 30seconds and add sour cream to it to cool it down. There after, pour into whisked egg mixture and whisk till homogeneous.

4. Sieve together flour and baking powder (remember to keep extra to coat blueberries) and gently fold into your egg and sour cream mixture.

5. Once the mixture is homogeneous, wash your blueberries and place in a strainer. Then sprinkle the extra flour until the blueberries are fully coated. Add to your cake mixture and fold in gradually

6. To prepare your baking pan, place parchment paper at

“So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the Glory of God.” — 1

Corinthians 10:31

Singleness is not a de fi ciency, but a divinely ordained state designed to foster a deeper relationship with God. Far from being a mark of incompleteness, a single life—when embraced as God’s gift—offers freedom, growth, and purposeful living.

THE BIBLICAL PERSPECTIVE ON SINGLENESS

Recognising Divine Design

The Scriptures remind us that all aspects of life are under God’s sovereign orchestration. In Genesis 2:7, the account of creation establishes humanity’s inherent purpose and value from the very beginning. This foundational truth reinforces that singleness, like marriage, is part of God’s intentional design. In 1 Corinthians 7:32, the apostle Paul highlights that singleness allows for undivided devotion to the Lord, unencumbered by the additional responsibilities that often accompany marital life.

Identity in Christ

Central to the Christian life is the understanding that our worth is determined not by our marital status but by our identity in Christ. Colossians 2:10 asserts, “In Christ, you have been brought to fullness. He is the head over every power and authority.” This declaration liberates us from the pressure to validate ourselves through relationships, affirming that we are already whole and complete in Him.

- Pastor Mrs. Samagbeyi

MAXIMISING YOUR SINGLENESS FOR GOD’S GLORY

EMBRACING SINGLENESS AS A GIFT Freedom and Self-Discovery

The single season is a unique opportunity to discover and develop your God-given purpose. As you exercise freedom—free from the expectations of a relational status—you are called to prioritise selfdevelopment. Use this time to understand your gifts, refine your character, and pursue excellence as a disciple of Christ. Life, as Ecclesiastes 12:1 suggests, is too precious to be consumed by fleeting passions that may lead to wounded spirits.

Celebrating Divine Timing

Ecclesiastes 3:1 and 11 remind us that there is a season for everything in life. Trusting in God’s perfect timing for relationships encourages us to live fully and intentionally in the present. Every stage of life has its beauty, and singleness is no exception. It is a period marked by growth and exploration—a time to invest deeply in personal and spiritual maturity.

PURSUING PERSONAL GROWTH AND DIVINE PURPOSE

A Call to Personal Development

Your marriage cannot exceed the quality of the individual you are. Embrace this season to “build yourself up”—emotionally, financially, and spiritually. Devote yourself to rigorous self-examination, continual improvement, and service to God’s people. Your personal development is the key to fulfilling the greater purpose for which God created you.

PRACTICAL STEPS FOR SPIRITUAL GROWTH

1. Deepen Your Knowledge of God’s Word: Commit yourself to studying Scripture diligently.

2. Obedience in Daily Life: Cultivate a lifestyle that reflects unwavering faith and trust in God’s promises (Proverbs 3:5-8).

3. Cultivate Faith and Prayer: Foster a robust prayer life as the foundation of your relationship with God.

4. Develop the Fruit of the Spirit: Let love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control be evident in your everyday interactions.

Hebrews 12:2 challenges us to fix our eyes on Jesus—the pioneer and perfecter of our faith— as we navigate the highs and lows of single life, trusting that God’s plan is both purposeful and transformative.

HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP BOUNDARIES

Understanding Intimacy and Accountability

While relationships are a blessing, they also bring complexity and potential emotional strain. The Scriptures advise wisdom in interpersonal connections. In 2 Corinthians 6:14, believers are reminded not to be unequally yoked; relationships should be built on shared values and commitments that honour God.

The Sanctity of Marriage and Boundaries Outside It

Christian teaching emphasises that the deepest intimacy is reserved for the marital covenant—a sacred bond that mirrors Christ’s relationship with His Church.

Engaging in intimacy outside of this framework risks undermining the dignity intended by God for human

relationships. As demonstrated by the narrative in 2 Samuel 11:4, actions that stray from divine instruction have profound consequences.

Maintaining Independence and Self-Worth

The single life is an opportunity to learn to rely on God, rather than on others, for validation. Embrace your unique journey and maintain healthy boundaries in all relationships— financial, social, and emotional. This commitment not only honours God but also safeguards your well-being as you pursue excellence and independence.

CONCLUSION

Maximising your singleness is about embracing a lifestyle that glori fies

God in all pursuits—whether eating, drinking, or engaging in any aspect of daily living. As Jeremiah 29:11 assures us, God’s plan for us is one of hope and a future, and it is in this spirit that we live out our callings. Remember that singleness is not a deficit but a fertile season for personal growth, spiritual enrichment, and divine purpose. With a steadfast focus on God’s Word and His timing, you can navigate life with freedom, joy, and a deeply rooted sense of self-worth.

Shalom, and may your journey in singleness continuously draw you closer to the One who defines you.

THERE ARE SO many books we could easily recommend, however, in this special first edition, we are dedicating this section only to books by our fathers and mothers of RCCGNA. Even with that confinment there are still so many options to choose from, however, with this shortlist we hope you’re able to find something that’s for you as a man or something you could gift to your wife, sister or mother.

The Divine Playmaker Book Recommendations

I• Holiness: A Collection of Messages on Holiness by E.A. Adeboye - E.A Adeboye

• Open Heavens Daily Devotional - E.A Adeboye

• The God of Signs and Wonders! - E.A Adeboye

• The Prayer that Works - Daniel Ajayi Adeniran

• Winning the battles - Daniel Ajayi Adeniran

• Women as a fruitful vine- Funmi Adeyemi

• Money is a DEFENSE - Bayo Adeyokunnu

• Saved But Caged - Bayo Adeyokunnu

• You Can Rewrite Your Story - James Fadel

• Avoiding The Titanic Marriage - James Fadel

• Quest For Excellence - Ade Okonrende

• Marriage Companion - Grace Okonrede

Matthew 19:26

“With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.” -

N THE WORLD of sports, a playmaker is a game-changer, someone who can turn the tide of a match in the blink of an eye. They see opportunities where others see dead-ends, and they create chances where none seem to exist. Think of Ronaldinho, dazzling defenders with his samba magic, or the Nigerian magician, Jay-Jay Okocha, leaving opponents in his wake with his mesmerizing footwork. He was so good they named him twice. And who can forget Tom Brady, the NFL maestro, orchestrating last-minute drives to snatch victory from the jaws of defeat?

Just as these playmakers transform games, Jesus is the ultimate Playmaker in our lives. He specializes in turning impossible situations around at the eleventh hour. When all hope seems lost, He steps in and changes the game.

Remember the story of Lazarus? He was dead and buried, but Jesus showed up and called him back to life (John 11:1-44). Or consider the Israelites, trapped between the Red Sea and Pharaoh’s army. Just when all seemed lost, God parted the waters and led them to safety (Exodus 14).

Jesus is the same yesterday, today, and forever (Hebrews 13:8). He’s not bound by time or circumstances. He can step into your situation right now and turn it around. So, if you’re facing a seemingly impossible situation, remember: Jesus is the Divine Playmaker. Trust Him, and watch as He changes the game.

Prayer: Dear Lord, thank You for being the ultimate Playmaker in our lives. Help us to trust in Your timing and Your plan, even when things seem impossible. We believe that with You, all things are possible. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

THE CHURCH AND SOCIAL RESPONSIBILITY

Christian Social Responsibility (CSR) for RCCG The Americas –Plans And Priorities

LPastor Funmilayo Adeyemi

HOPE FOR YOU

OOKING AT CORPORATE Social Responsibility from the biblical perspective; it is a God’s call to the church, both corporately and individually, to use all its resources and provisions to care and steward God’s creation Genesis 1:26-26, pursue justice Amos 5:24, seek for peace Luke 19:41-42-41, and care for people in need. Mat 25:40 40. Based on these scriptures, God strategically positioned the church as the authority and powers of the world. The Church has significant influence on individual and community decision-making, more than any corporation or entity in the world.

CSR creates a long lasting Branding for every organization, nonprofit or for profit. RCCG The Americas 1 is

much involved in the Strategic Intent and thematic area of interventions created by the General Overseer, Pastor Enoch Adeboye. To initiate and implement consolidated and intentional CSR initiatives in all our churches, DSHEMBAGS (Disaster Relief, Social, Health, Education, Media & Communication, Business & The Economy, Arts, Culture & Entertainment, Government & Politics and Sports) was created as services or area of focus. These are coordinated, harmonized, and structured for maximum impact and visibility within communities, towns, cities, ands nations, leveraging on the massive footprint of the church (Parishes etc.).

For RCCG THE AMERICAS, we pursue this mission through integrated, holistic

commitment to:

• Transformational development that is community-based and sustainable, focused especially on the needs of children.

• Emergency relief that assists people afflicted by conflict or disaster.

• Promotion of justice that seeks to change unjust structures affecting the poor among whom we work.

• Partners with churches to contribute to spiritual and social transformation.

• Public awareness leads to informed understanding, giving, involvement, and prayer.

• True witness of Jesus Christ by life, deed, word, and sign that encourages people to respond to the Gospel.

CSR activities and its sustainable growth: As parishes grow, the commitment to CSR in our local communities must also grow.

Growth refers to quantitative change while Development refers to qualitative change. Social intervention is one of the vital aspects that need to be developed to achieve sustainable growth. The 3 vital aspects of sustainable development -economic, social, and environmental through social service and social action.

Sustainable growth - the realistic, attainable growth that can be achieved without running into problems of funding caused by too rapid growth or by stagnation because of slow growth or lack of innovation. It is when the welfare of human society does not exhibit a tendency to decline over time.

Sustainable development focuses on finding better ways of doing things, both for the future and the present

Based on this, the plan of action for

RCCG churches should focus on how:

• RCCG churches will have significant influence on individual and community-oriented institutions like other charitable organizations are designed to do.

• The Church will have responsibility to meaningfully converse with the community it influences, understanding the social environment to assist it in positive change, and at the same time influence the corporation bosses and employees who attend Churches, hence dictating a set of standards and principles that corporations should uphold.

• Changes in worldview about the way humans and nature are seen in their relation to and with God. It is only

the social doctrine offered by the church that can provide a biblical and unique pathway to a global ethic of sustainable development. It is the church that can provide a compelling teaching about the gospel on social action that addresses issues like the preferential option for the poor, the universal destination of goods etc.

• The Church will use its multidimensional approach for transformation - the spiritual, emotional, social, and habitudinal dimensions, e.g., in religious services, rituals, prayers or narratives. This multidimensional approach is an important factor for genuine motivation for societal change.

• Strengthening of institutional collaborations to build the capacity

of churches to comprehend the wider perspective regarding CSR. This will aid in elaborating the inter-linkages.

• Churches encourage their membership to actively engage in civic and political processes because they directly or indirectly impact their relationship with the community. Such involvement would increase government’s accountability to the citizenry.

• Churches use community cultural wealth to strengthen and expand their scopes.

Our social action is not a bribe but a bridge of love to the world. So long as we retain our own integrity and serve people out of genuine love and not with an ulterior motive.

FULFILLING GOD’S PURPOSE II

Memorise: And the LORD God took the man, and put him into the garden of Eden to dress it and to keep it. – Genesis 2:15

Read: Genesis 1:26-28 (KJV)

Bible in One Year: Mark 10:46-12:40;

Job 20:1-19

MESSAGE:

AT THE VERY beginning of creation and before the fall of man in Genesis chapter three, the instruction given to humanity can be safely classified into three categories. Category one is to cultivate the land and to keep it. The words “subdue”, “have dominion”, and “rule” are all pointers to what is required to effectively keep the land as stewardkings of God’s creation. Category two is the institution of law with the purpose of teaching people to live under authority. The third category is the institution of marriage to expose people to the principle of love and teach people to live for someone other than themselves. From that very beginning, God made it very clear that He is not abandoning us to ourselves to figure things out all alone. He wants us to use everything we have to serve Him and humanity, therefore manual labour or service at this level was not the result of the fall, rather it was part of God’s original purpose for humanity. The truth is evident in Genesis 2:15-18, which says:

“15 And the LORD God took the man, and put him into the garden of Eden to dress it and to keep it. 16 And the LORD God commanded the man, saying, Of every tree of the garden thou mayest freely eat: 17 But of the tree of the

God is not abandoning us to ourselves to figure things out all alone. He wants us to use everything we have to serve Him and humanity.

knowledge of good and evil, thou shalt not eat of it: for in the day that thou eatest thereof thou shalt surely die. 18 And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.”

The starting point of fulfilling God’s purpose for anyone therefore, is to be productive. Since we are discussing the very first set of instructions to humanity, obedience to God must necessarily start from here. A true believer is to

provide for his near relatives and his immediate family at the same time. It is not by choice; failure to provide for one’s family is equal to denial of the faith as stated in 1 Timothy 5:8:

“But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel.”

This is the major reason why believers must be busy doing something worthwhile in life. If a Christian is unable to care for his family, such a person will be unable to love and care for others. The Bible says that such people are worse than infidels. Now it is possible to be in such a state temporarily due to several reasons, but it must not be accepted as permanent status. A faithful Christian will soon find favour with God and man that will pull him or her out of such a despicable situation. I therefore prophesy into the life of anyone in such a situation reading this devotional today, the Great Provider will transfer you from poverty to abundance today in Jesus’ name. For those that are looking unto God for profitable ventures, receive it now in the name of Jesus. From this day, you will begin to fulfill God’s purpose for your life in the mighty name of Jesus.

Prayer Point:

Father, please help me to fulfill my purpose in Jesus’ name.

Open Heavens Devotional

By Pastor E. A. Adeboye

Thursday, 11th February 2016

Let’s Talk with God

7-DAY KIDS’ PRAYER JOURNAL WITH SCRIPTURE

MY LIGHT BY RACHEAL OKUSOLUBO

There were nights I felt lost, stumbling in the dark, wondering if God still saw me.

But somehow, even in my doubt, His light would find me through a kind word, a quiet moment, a reminder that I wasn’t alone.

Now, I want to be that light too. Not perfect, not bright on my own, but shining because He placed His love in me.

So if someone else feels lost, maybe they’ll see Him through me, just like I saw Him when I needed Him most.

Racheal Okusolubo 18, DALLAS TX

“I love to read, write and build things”

“A Hopeful Heart, 1John 3:3” SEMILORE A., 6 YEARS OLD, DALLAS TX

“Pregnant Mary travelling” NGOZI, 8 YEARS OLD - DALLAS TX

Young and Chosen

MIRIAM - The Watchful Sister

Exodus 2:1–10

Miriam was just a girl when her baby brother, Moses, was placed in a basket and floated down the river. Instead of being afraid, Miriam watched over him and made sure he was safe. When Pharaoh’s daughter found the baby, Miriam courageously stepped forward and offered help. Because of her bravery, Moses stayed connected to his family and was raised to be a great leader!

Lesson: You can be a protector and a helper—God uses your courage to care for others.

The Brave Servant Girl - A Voice of Hope

2 Kings 5:1–3

This young girl was far from home, serving in Naaman’s house. When she saw he was sick with leprosy, she didn’t stay quiet—she spoke up with faith and pointed him to the prophet Elisha. Because of her bold words, Naaman found healing and came to believe in the power of God. Her simple faith led to a powerful miracle!

Lesson: Your voice matters! God can use your words to bring healing, help, and hope to others.

SAMUEL - The Boy who heard God

1 Samuel 3

Samuel lived in the temple and helped the priest Eli, even though he was still a child. One night, he heard someone calling his name—it was God! Samuel listened carefully and answered, “Speak, Lord, for your servant is listening.” God spoke to him and trusted him with important messages for His people.

Lesson: You can hear God’s voice too! He speaks to kids who listen and obey

Young and Chosen

DAVID - The Young Giant Slayer

1 Samuel 17:1–50

David was just a young shepherd boy when he stepped onto the battlefield to face Goliath, a giant warrior who terrified everyone. He didn’t wear armor or carry a sword. Instead, he trusted God, picked up five smooth stones, and used his slingshot. With courage and faith, David defeated the giant and showed everyone that God’s power is greater than any problem we face!

Lesson: Even if you’re small, your faith is big when you trust in God—He can help you do great things!

JOSIAH - The Kid Who Became King

2 Kings 22–23

Josiah became king when he was only eight years old—imagine that! Even though he was young, he loved God and chose to do what was right. When he read God’s Word, he was so moved that he helped the whole country turn back to God. He tore down idols and made sure the people remembered how to worship the Lord.

Lesson: You can be a leader and set a good example by choosing to follow God.

The Boy who shared his Lunch

John 6:1-14

This boy had just five loaves of bread and two fish. When he saw that people were hungry, he didn’t hold back—he gave it all to Jesus. Jesus used that small lunch to perform a miracle and fed over 5,000 people! This boy’s kindness and willingness made a big difference that day.

Lesson: What you have may seem small, but when you share with a kind heart, God can do something amazing!

Paul’s First Missionary Journey (Acts 12:25 - 13:52)

There is therefore now no Condemnation

(Romans 8:1-12)

COLOUR THE IMAGE

“There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit.For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus hath made me free from the law of sin and death.”

ROMANS 8:1-2

CROSSWORD PUZZLE

WHEN THE KING CHOSE A DONKEY

Oluwademilade Oladipo

DEAR PASTOR SEED, Let’s talk about humility. Yeah right! That elusive, slightly uncomfortable, but undeniably beautiful character trait we’re all told to master—especially if you’re a pastor’s child. Somewhere between leading the opening prayer, being the last to leave church, and smiling politely when someone says, “You must be so spiritual,” humility often becomes more about performance than posture.

But let’s pause the show and look at Jesus—our perfect role model.

This is the same Jesus who could command storms to hush, raise the dead with a word, and walk on water like it was a marble floor. And yet, He knelt down, basin in hand, to wash the dirty feet of His disciples even containing the world and even the womb he created (isn’t that crazy?). Let’s be real: some of us wouldn’t even wash our younger sibling’s feet, let alone our Judas.

Jesus rode into Jerusalem on a donkey, not a war horse. He entered

the world in a manger, not a palace. He chose silence when falsely accused and chose a cross when He could’ve chosen a crown. The humility of Jesus isn’t just inspiring—it’s scandalous. Because real humility costs something. It means choosing to serve when you deserve to be served. It means lowering yourself—not because you’re worthless, but because you know your worth so deeply, you’re not obsessed with proving it.

Now, as a Pastor’s seed, we often get humility wrong. We confuse it with shrinking back, downplaying our gifts, or being quiet so people think we’re “spiritual.” But true humility is not self-erasure—it’s self-awareness. It’s knowing you are dust and divine breath at the same time. It’s being confident in your calling, but gentle in your conduct. It’s preaching fire on stage and still stacking chairs afterward.

Some of us were raised in churches where humility was modeled as never having an opinion, always saying yes, or never wanting to be acknowledged. That’s not humility. That’s peoplepleasing wrapped in religious ribbons. Jesus was humble, yes, but He was also

bold, clear, and unshakably secure. Humility didn’t make Him weak—it made Him dangerously powerful in the Kingdom.

Being a pastor’s seed comes with pressure. There’s this unspoken (or loudly spoken) expectation to be a leader, role model, and mini-pastor all at once. But the real secret sauce? Be like Jesus. Choose the towel over the title. Embrace the backstage over the spotlight when it honors God. Laugh at yourself. Apologize quickly. Celebrate others loudly. And don’t forget: humility doesn’t mean hiding your light—it means pointing it back to the Source.

So here’s to being seeds who walk in holy confidence and sacred humility. May we serve without seeking applause, love without leveraging power, and shine without stealing glory. Because when we mirror the humility of Jesus, we don’t just reflect Him—we reveal Him.

And trust me, nothing looks better on a child of a King than a crown carried in humility. Even if you have to ride in on a donkey to wear it.

All my love, Demi

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8 Tips to Living Long and Well

ILOVE HOW ARTISTIC God is and how thoughtful He is in creation. The description “Artistic “ fails to capture the Creative abilities of God. Case in point, He is the Triune God- God the Father.

God The Son and God the Holy Spirit- and He made us in His likeness- Made as spirit, with a soul housed in a body. All three parts are essential to function on Earth. The spirit is the most important to be nurtured, but the body needs to be preserved to host the spirit. The body, your body, is necessary for you to carry out your God-given assignment.

In this article, I share eight simple tips on how to live long AND well in your temple. After all, the bible does emphasize the need for all parts of you to be well. “May your whole spirit, soul, and body be

preserved blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus” (I Thess. 5:23)

1. MOVE YOUR BODY

Jesus walked.

He could have flown, driven, and skydived but walked around doing good. He even walked on water. Find creative ways to exercise while at work. Consider using a walking pad while holding Zoom meetings or taking a prayer walk as a way to exercise the body and the spirit.

I John 4:8a: For bodily exercise profiteth little”

2. EAT MORE FRESH FRUITS AND VEGETABLES

Science has shown us that the more natural the foods are, the better.

It was God’s original idea, too; see Genesis 1:29: “Behold, I have given you

every plant yielding seed that is on the face of all the earth, and every tree with seed in its fruit. You shall have them for food.”

3. MAKE WATER YOUR DRINK OF CHOICE.

You are made of 50-60% water. Water helps preserve your kidneys, and essentially, all organs of your body depend on it.

4. MIND YOUR MIND

Worrying is a health stealer, and while life may tempt us with reasons to worry, it is to your advantage that you transfer the energy used in worrying to prayerful strategizing.

Philippians 4:6-7 TPT says: “Don’t be pulled in different directions or worried about a thing. Be saturated in prayer throughout each day, offering your faith-filled requests before God with overflowing gratitude.”

Protect your mental space by guarding the doors to your mind regarding what you see, hear, and associate with.

5. GET GOOD QUALITY REST.

Good sleep (I recommend 7-8 hours for adults, except during seasons of spiritual exercise) can help reduce the risk of illness, help your body fight infections, maintain a healthy weight, and countless other advantages.

FREE TIP: turn your phone and other electronics off 1 hr before sleep. Even in a storm, Jesus slept. See full story Matthew 8:23-27

6. GET YOU SOME POSITIVE PEER PRESSURE.

Proverbs 13:20: “Walk with the wise and become wise, for a companion of fools suffers harm”

Hanging out with people who maintain a healthy lifestyle and care for the well-being of their spirit, soul, and body makes it easier for you to align! You tend to make better choices when influenced positively, so create hubs and immerse yourself—it is one of the fastest ways to longevity and a better

7. LEARN TO SAY NO.

No to things that are not good for you. Like toxins, smoking, heavily processed foods, drugs, alcohol, especially heavy consumption. Remember, “No” is a full sentence.

How do you learn to say “No”? Don’t surround yourself with these items; change your environment! It’s easier to avoid consumption when the item is out of access.

Make an effort to find healthier outlets to self-soothe. Incorporate creative ways to treat yourself after a long day, activities like reading, painting, listening to music and dancing, playing scrabble, and talking to friends.

8.

BE SPIRITUAL

“With long life will I satisfy him and show him My salvation. Psalm 91:16” I love this verse. Living long AND well. But for this to happen, I must; we must

KID’S CORNER CONT’D

dwell in the secret place – as echoed in this same chapter but from verse 1. Studies have shown that maintaining a spiritually centered life increases one’s life expectancy. Nurturing a relationship with Jesus through prayer, meditation, and studying the Word in fellowship and secret is key.

Are these steps hard? Well, somewhat. But are they doable with grace and time? Yes indeed.

We are all on a journey of purpose. Let’s do our part by partnering with God to improve the quality and quantity of life.

In health,

Dr Tolulope Olabintan

Co-founder of Livingspring Family Medical Center

Adherence to Medication: A CALL TO STEWARDSHIP

IN MY LINE of work, I frequently come across patients who find it challenging to adhere to their prescribed medication regimens. Amid our busy lives, it is pretty easy to forget about taking our medications, yet the importance of medication adherence cannot be overemphasized. Most often, people do not realize the implications of non-adherence, of which the repercussions can be severe, sometimes resulting in severe morbidity or death.

Medication adherence, defined as “the extent to which patients take medications as prescribed by their health care providers” continues to be a significant public health issue. According to the American Heart Association, poor medication adherence takes the lives of 125,000 Americans yearly and costs the health system as much as $300 billion a year in additional medical appointments, emergency visits, and hospitalization.

For Christians, the issue transcends health- it is also a spiritual one. The Bible instructs us to be stewards of our bodies and all that the Lord has entrusted us. Adhering to medication regimens as health providers prescribe is another layer to this stewardship. By taking medications as prescribed, we maintain good health and can fulfill our responsibilities to ourselves and those who rely on us.

In 1 Corinthians 6:19-20, the Apostle Paul reminded us that our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit and that we should honor God through them. This verse highlights that the Lord has entrusted us as stewards of our bodies and that we must do all we can to care for them. When we fail to adhere to prescribed medications, we miss an opportunity to honor Him by being good stewards of our bodies.

that our lives are not our own and that we have a responsibility to care for the body He has given us.

One of the most significant contributors to non-adherence is forgetfulness. With our busy schedules, it can be challenging to integrate medication timing into our routines, considering some medications may need to be taken multiple times daily. However, we can lean on the Lord for strength and clarity by asking for His help in remembering to take our medications. Practical tools such as setting reminders on our phones, using pill organizers, working with our health providers to simplify our regimens, and enlisting the support of family and friends can significantly improve adherence.

In Luke 16:10, Jesus stressed the importance of being faithful in little things. Medication adherence is no exception. Taking our medication as prescribed is a further reminder

Another common reason many fail to adhere to the full course of their medications is the unpleasant side effects of medications. If you are experiencing side effects from your medication, you must notify your healthcare provider immediately so that they can suggest alternatives with fewer or no side effects.

Additionally, some Christians may feel that reliance on medication

demonstrates a lack of faith. However, taking medication should not be seen as a lack of faith but as an acknowledgement of God’s provision. God has blessed humanity with the technological know-how and ability to develop drugs to cure disease. Embracing these innovations honors Him.

Lastly, the rising cost of prescription

medicines has become a barrier to adherence. As the price of medicines continues to rise, many are forgoing medications in place of other pressing bills. Patients having difficulties affording their medications should consult their healthcare providers, pharmacists, or social workers to explore options such as switching to generic alternatives, manufacturer’s patient assistance

programs, and possible support from charitable organizations that help with medication costs.

In conclusion, medication adherence should be seen as a form of obedience and a way to honor God through our health. By taking our medication and thereby prioritizing our health, we are living out our faith by acknowledging God’s provision.

May we prosper in every way and enjoy good health, even as our soul also prospers.

Amen.

References

Oluseyi Ogunyankin, PharmD, MS, BCPS

Osterberg L, Blaschke T. Adherence to Medication. New Engl J Med 2005 Aug 4;353(5):487-97 American Heart Association. (2024, February). Medication adherence: Taking your meds as directed.

Living Life as God Intended

Folukemi Olawepo PMHNP-BC. MSN, RN.

“Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.”

John 14:27

GOD’S PLAN FOR His children is to live life to its fullest, in peace and with assurance. If this were not so, the Bible would not emphasize it. In God, peace is more than an absence of trouble; it is the hope and reassurance that we can do all things through Christ, who strengthens us. Yet, despite this divine promise, anxiety and depression remain among the most common mental health disorders, affecting even Christians. Why is this so?

Understanding Anxiety

Anxiety is a natural response to a perceived threat, often serving as a motivator. It keeps us alert

and prepared, like studying harder for an exam or being extra cautious in a dangerous situation. This “fight or flight” response helps protect us; believe it or not, a certain level of anxiety is necessary to keep us alive. However, anxiety becomes problematic when it become overwhelms, cripples, and persists. Instead of motivating, it can lead to sleeplessness, restlessness, panic attacks, and presenting with severe psychological and physiological symptoms. When unchecked, anxiety can weigh so heavily that external intervention becomes necessary.

Understanding Depression

Depression is a mood disorder that brings persistent sadness and a loss of interest in activities that once brought joy. It can be temporary, triggered by life events such as the loss of a loved one, financial struggles, or prolonged stress. However, it can also become a prolonged, debilitating condition. Depression is often compared to the common cold of the mind. While everyone experiences sadness at some point, when these feelings persist

for six months or more, even when external circumstances improve, clinical depression may be present. Factors such as seasonal changes, vitamin deficiencies, and chemical imbalances in the brain can also contribute to depression.

Biblical Figures Who Struggled with Anxiety and Depression

Even great heroes of faith faced these struggles:

Moses: After leading Israel through the Red Sea and witnessing God’s power, Moses became overwhelmed by the burden of leading a difficult people and asked God to take his life (Numbers 11:15).

Elijah: After calling down fire on Mount Carmel, Elijah fled in fear of Jezebel’s threat. Isolated in the wilderness, Elijah became despondent he asked God to take his life (1 Kings 19).

David: Many of his Psalms express deep anguish and sorrow. “How long must I wrestle with my thoughts and day after day have sorrow in my heart?” (Psalm 13:2-3).

Christians and Mental Health

Christians are not immune to anxiety and depression. As a community, we must create safe spaces where fellow believers can share their struggles without fear of judgment. We are called to cast our burdens onto the Lord, but this does not mean we should neglect professional help when needed. Seeking therapy or medical assistance does not signify a lack of faith. “Beloved, I pray that you may prosper in all things and be in health, just as your soul prospers”- 3 John 1:2. God desires for us to live in good health. Getting help is a step toward healing. Through both professional care and God’s divine touch, restoration is possible. As David declared: “I waited patiently for the Lord; he turned to me and heard my cry. He lifted me out of the slimy pit, out of the mud and mire; he set my feet on a rock and gave me a firm place to stand. He has put a new song in my mouth, a song of praise to our God; many will see it and fear, and will trust in the Lord.” Psalm 40:1-3. No matter how deep the struggle, God’s healing and peace are always within reach. You, too, can be restored.

Kidney Health

MAbiade Ogunsola

M.S, RD, LDN CDCES

ARCH IS A powerful month for health awareness—it marks both National Nutrition Month and National Kidney Month. These observances highlight the importance of healthy eating and kidney care, especially in the African American community, where chronic diseases like diabetes, high blood pressure, and kidney disease disproportionately affect Black individuals.

Ways to keep your Kidney Healthy

• Stay hydrated - drink enough water to keep you hydrated. Your water needs depend on your activity, age, climate and health status. Drink water your waywarm, cold, infused with lemon, fruits, herbs. Your urine is a good indicator of your water intake.

• Keep active - Do activities that you enjoy such as dancing, walking, swimming, pilate, bicycling. Have a schedule that works for you and your family.

• Reduce salt (sodium) intakePink (Himalayan salt), black salt, kosher, table salt- all contain sodium. Give yourself about 2-3 months to adjust to lower salt intake.

• Be careful with seasoning. Look at the serving size and sodium

content of seasoning-seasonings such as Lawry’s, Adobo, Maggi, Knorr, accent, all contain sodium. Use herbs, vegetables or sodium free seasoning such as garlic, onions, locust beans, basil, thyme, Mrs Dash or similar product.

• Eat more plant-based foods and choose minimally processed plants foods. Make ½ of your plate non starchy vegetables, ¼ lean protein and ¼ complex carbohydrate.

• Eat less red meat. Choose lean protein. Have a meatless day.

• Manage your blood sugar. Know your a1c. Talk to Diabetes Educator (CDCES) if needed.

• Manage your blood pressure. Check your blood pressure at home.

• Be careful with “all purpose” herbal drinks.

• Monitor your kidney function. Get screened regularly.

• Maintain a healthy weight.

• Know your risk.

Kidney Web Resources Kidney.org Freseniusmedicalcare.com davita.com diabetes.org niddk.nih.org

My Medications

Olusegun Adeshola

PharmD BCACP

MEDICATIONS ARE CHEMI-

CAL compounds used for treating, preventing, diagnosing, or relieving symptoms. They are available in various forms such as tablets, capsules, suspensions, solutions, buccal, creams, or patches, and can be administered orally, topically, by injection, aerosolized, or as inserts. Medications can be either prescription-based or available over the counter (OTC).

OTC Medications: OTC medications include treatments for conditions such as the common cold or cough, allergies, pain, herbal supplements, smoking cessation, or emergency contraception. However, the fact that a medication is herbal (natural) or available OTC does not guarantee the medication is safe for everyone. It is crucial to read the medication package/insert or discuss with a pharmacist if available. While it is acceptable to search online for basic understanding, it is important to remember online information is not a substitute for professional medical advice.

Prescription Medications: The fact

that two medications look alike or sound alike does not necessarily mean they are the same. When starting a new prescription, increasing a dose, or resuming a medication after a long time off, it is essential to consult with a pharmacist to ask questions and verify medication details.

Questions to Consider: Are you wondering what questions to ask during your next trip to a pharmacy? Here are 20 questions to consider before starting a medication:

1. Why am I taking this medication?

2. What is the medication dose (is this the same, increased, or reduced dose from the last fill)?

3. What is the route of medication administration?

4. What is the medication dosing frequency?

5. Will the medication require dose titration, and if so, how long before increasing the dose?

6. If I decide to stop this medication, do I slowly reduce my dose, or can I stop abruptly? 7. If the medication is not

administered orally, can you demonstrate how to administer it (show and tell)?

8. What contraindications exist with this medication?

9. What interactions exist with this medication (can I combine it with other medications)? 10. What other health conditions can this medication treat?

11. When is it appropriate for me to take this medication?

12. What should I expect after starting this medication (can I drive, lie down, operate heavy machinery, or must I sit upright immediately after taking)?

13. What side effects are common with this medication, and how do I manage them if I experience any?

14. What should I do if I don’t experience relief or the symptoms worsen? 15. What should I do if I miss a dose?

16. How do I take this medication (before a meal, after a meal, or on an empty stomach)? 17. How do I store this medication?

18. How do I know this medication is effective? Do I need to complete any lab tests, and if so, how often?

19. How long will I be on this medication?

20. How long will it take for me to experience symptom relief or resolution after starting this medication?

Regardless of a medication’s appearance, texture, or taste, it remains a chemical substance capable of altering normal bodily functions. It is important to store medications safely, away from children and pets. Taking an incorrect dosage without consulting a healthcare professional can be harmful, due to the effects of improper medication use. Additionally, medications can interact or expire if not used or stored correctly. For safety, administer medications as recommended, and if uncertain, it is okay to ask.

Sustaining Your Walk

“No, O people, the LORD has told you what is good, and this is what he requires of you: to do what is right, to love mercy, and to walk humbly with your God.” - Micah 6:8 NLT

AMONG MANY REQUIREMENTS

from God is walking humbly with God. Walking with God is not the preserve of a few mighty men and women of God. There are many examples of people who walked with God in their lifetime. Enoch was said to have walked with God in Genesis 5:21-24 “…. Enoch lived 365 years, walking in close fellowship with God. Then one day he disappeared, because God took him….” God so much enjoyed His walk and fellowship with Enoch that He decided to take Him straight to heaven without dying. In the time of Noah while God said it repented Him to have created man, He found one man in the entire world who remained steadfast in his walk with God. “This is

the account of Noah and his family. Noah was a righteous man, the only blameless person living on earth at the time, and he walked in close fellowship with God.”

(Genesis 6:9)

The Invitation by God to an intimate fellowship

God invites, no, demands that we walk with Him. He said to Abram at 99 years. “…. I am the Almighty God; walk before

me and be thou perfect. And I will make my covenant between me and thee …” (Genesis 17:1-2). Walking with God is an intimate heart to heart fellowship with God. It starts by first having a relationship with God through faith. “For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: [9] Not of works, lest any man should boast” (Ephesians 2:8-9 KJV)

Our Lord Jesus told Nicodemus, “except a man be born again he cannot see the kingdom of God” (John3:3) Seeing God and walking with God in intimate heart to heart fellowship requires a pure heart, and clean hands. (Matthew 5:8, Psalm 24:3-5)

Walking with God builds a Covenant Relationship

Walking with God comes with great dividends. It leads to a covenant relationship with God.

God is perfect and blameless that is why to walk with Him you also must be perfect and blameless. Amos 3:3 says, “Can two walk together, except they be agreed?” Walking with God comes with great dividends. It leads to a covenant relationship with God. God makes covenant with only those who are walking with him faithfully, for example - Abrahamic covenant, Noahic Covenant, Davidic Covenant are all because of their faithful walk with God. As a church it’s this steadfast walk with God by our fathers - the founder Rev Josiah Akindayomi and our General Overseer, Pastor Enoch A. Adeboye that gave and is sustaining the Covenant of God with the Redeemed Christian Church of God.

The Requirement for walking with God

But Jesus told him, “Anyone who puts a hand to the plow and then looks back is not fit for the Kingdom of God” (Luke 9:62). Walking with God requires giving up other things and relationships to be intimate with God. You cannot serve God and mammon. You cannot be a

friend of the world and of God at the same time. Abraham had to give up his father’s house, Moses gave up the palace of Egypt and his father in law’s cattle business to embark on a lifelong walk with God. What enabled them to give up the known for the unknown is their personal encounter with God. Desire that personal encounter with God like Moses had at the burning bush, like Samuel had when God called him, like Paul had on the road to Damascus when God’s bright light encountered him by the roadside. Pray for such Divine encounters and it will strengthen your walk with God

Sin is the biggest hindrance to walking with God

Sin is the biggest hindrance to our walk with God. Sin separates man from God (Isaiah 59:1-2). God desires to fellowship with us regularly. He comes walking in the cool of the evening to fellowship with us like He did with Adam and Eve in the garden of Eden, but they hid themselves away because of their sin. God is calling you - where are you? (Genesis 3:8-10). Don’t let that sin keep you away from your Heavenly Father. Come back to your senses like the prodigal son and return to your Father. His arms are wide open waiting eagerly for your return.

“When he finally came to his senses, he said to himself, ‘At home even the hired servants have food enough to spare, and here I am dying of hunger! [18] I will go home to my father and say, “Father, I have sinned against both heaven and you, [19] and I am no longer worthy of being called your son. Please take me on as a hired servant.”’ [20] “So he returned home

to his father. And while he was still a long way off, his father saw him coming. Filled with love and compassion, he ran to his son, embraced him, and kissed him.”

(Luke 15:17-20)

The Bible says that because iniquity will abound the love of many will wax

And what does the LORD require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.”

cold, but it’s only those that endure to the end that will be saved (Matthew 24:12-13) This is why this topic is very important at this time. Iniquity abounds everywhere today. How do we keep our walk and fellowship with God going in these last days? How do we keep our walk with God going even when it’s not popular to do so? How do I keep my walk with God alive on campus when my friends want us to have great worldly fun and paint the campus red? How do I sustain my walk with God when I am called names, ridiculed, and bullied because I am too religious. The Bible says “…… you must influence them; do not let them influence you!” (Jeremiah 15:19 NLT). Noah was described as “a righteous man, blameless among the people of his time, and he walked faithfully with God.” In times of pressure from your peers remember the text adopted for

this writeup - “He has shown you, O mortal, what is good. And what does the LORD require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.”

Friendship with the world is enmity with God

“Flee from anything that stimulates youthful lusts and instead pursue righteous living and enjoy only the companionship of those who call on the Lord” (2 Timothy 2:22 NLT)

Friendship with the world is enmity with God. You cannot be on both sides of the divide; you cannot serve God and money. The desires for worldly things have robbed many of their walk with God. You are to flee such things and pursue godly living. (1 Timothy 6:1011). Instead, you should be contented with what you have. Godliness with contentment is great gain. (1 Timothy 6:6 NLT)

Strange Doctrines of the last days hinders our walk with God

In these last days there are also strange doctrines of a ‘soft life’ that lack the power of godliness everywhere. Doctrines that turn people into lovers

of themselves and their money, lovers of pleasure more than lovers of God. Again, God warns us stay away from people like that. (2 Timothy 3:1-5) The Bible admonishes that you should test all things you hear and hold fast to that which is good but flee all appearances of evil. (1 Thessalonians 5:21-22)

Walking with God vs Working for God

Many start their walk with God by an intimate loving relationship but unfortunately fail in sustaining their initial love for God. They depart from their first love or the love they had for God at the first. They are like the people in the church in Ephesus (Revelation 2:15). They have replaced their love for God with their good deeds. They have given up their walk with God for their work for God. It’s like a marriage with no more honeymoon. The relationship by marriage is still there but the fellowship and intimacy of a happy union is gone out. Many marriages are like that today. The love they had at the first has frizzled out, oftentimes by the pursuit of work or distractions from strangers and strange activities or infidelity.

I was counseling a young couple some time ago. The wife was complaining of

neglect, that her husband was more married to his work than to her and the husband wandered if his wife preferred him not working and jobless. Like that wife said that day, God is not asking you not to work, neither is walking with God a hindrance to working for God. He is asking you to go back to the works you did at the first when your first love was fresh and hot. Go back to how you worked at the first and you still had personal quality time with the Lover of your soul

“Look how far you have fallen! Turn back to me and do the works you did at first. If you don’t repent, I will come and remove your lampstand from its place among the churches.”

(Revelation 2:5 NLT)

day, preaching, healing, delivering, and saving multitudes. It’s the presence of God cultivated in the place of fellowshipping and walking with God that empowers Him for all the Works He did during the day.

It’s the presence of God cultivated in the place of fellowshipping and walking with God that empowered Jesus for all the works He did during the day.

Balance your work and walk in God

We must learn how to balance our work for God with our walk with God. It’s our walk with God that fuels our work for God. Martha was busy working for God while Mary sat at the feet of Jesus in fellowship. The worker for God felt she was better than the walker with God. Jesus corrected her. Martha you are cambered about much serving, but one thing is needful, and Mary has found it (Luke 10:42). Our Lord Jesus is not saying stop working for God. He is saying that walking with God is the one thing needed to successfully work for God. Jesus efficiently balanced both. He often will go into the mountains and pray all night, walking with God before the day breaks and work all

Sustaining God’s Invitation to Walk with Him God invites you to the same walk He had with Adam in the garden of Eden. He looks for different ways to get your attention, a gentle call of the night like Samuel experienced, a burning bush experience like Moses had. No one comes to the Son except the Father draws him (John 6:44). It’s when you respond to the drawing of God that your personal encounter and walk with God starts. Sustain that walk invitation from God by daily initiating to walk with God. Remember that “the Lord is with you, while ye be with him; and if ye seek him, he will be found of you; but if ye forsake him, he will forsake you” (2 Chronicles 15:2). “Draw nigh to God, and he will draw nigh to you” (James 4:8).

You Can Rise again

ONE OF MY most intriguing childhood activities was riding my bicycle. I eagerly looked forward to it, even though I knew I would fall along the way. Each time I fell, I picked myself up and rode again with excitement. Life, too, is a long journey with numerous turns and bumps. Sometimes we may fall, but we get up again and keep moving forward.

In Proverbs 4:18, the Bible says, “But the path of the just is as the shining light, that shineth more and more unto the perfect day.” God desires that the life of a Christian should continually improve, not become bitter as days pass. Along this path, we may fail, falter, or miss the mark, which can be very discouraging. However, we must remember that only the righteous person can fall (Proverbs 24:16). An unrighteous person never falls because they are perpetually in a fallen state, having not accepted Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior. The sacrifice of Jesus on the cross paid for our past, present, and future sins. Therefore, whenever we sin, we should boldly come to Him as in 1 John 1:7-9, asking for forgiveness. He will forgive us and cleanse us from all unrighteousness.

Revelation 13:8 says, “And all that dwell upon the earth shall worship him, whose names are not written in the book of life of the Lamb slain from the foundation of the world.” Jesus was slain even before man sinned. Man’s sin did not surprise God, for He knows all things and had made provision for man’s redemption. Even in the Garden of Eden, when man sinned and the Lord cursed the earth due to man’s sins, God had already released the blessing on man in Genesis 1:28 to be fruitful, multiply, replenish the

earth, subdue it, and to have dominion. The answer to life’s issues have been provided by God even before the issues arise. At the crucifixion of Christ, we were crucified with Him and are now dead to sins. The Spirit of Life in Christ Jesus frees us to live righteously.

According to 1 John 3:9, “Those who have been born into God’s family do not make a practice of sinning, because God’s life is in them. So, they can’t keep on sinning, because they are children of God”. God expects a born-again Christian not to perpetually or willfully live in sin. As children of God, we must be led by the Holy Spirit (Rom 8:14). The Holy Spirit empowers us to live above sin as we obey Him. By Obeying the Holy Spirit, we are working out our salvation with fear and trembling. The truth is that, without the help of the Holy spirit no man can live above sin.

Proverbs 24:16 states, “For a righteous man may fall seven times and rise again, but the wicked shall fall by calamity.” From this, we can observe:

• Only righteous men fall.

• Only the righteous man may fall.

• Only the righteous man may fall several times.

• Only the righteous man rises after a fall.

• Only the righteous man continues to rise after a fall.

I wrote all this to highlight one word: “righteous.” The word “righteous” means you have a right standing before God. We are the righteousness of God in Christ Jesus (2 Corinthians 5:21). I cannot overemphasize this—you are righteous. Because you are righteous, you have the capability of rising and always rising. A righteous man is not fashioned to stay down; you are fashioned to soar like an eagle. That’s where you are meant to be. Your righteousness was imputed to you by Jesus Christ. It is not based on what you do or do not do, so do not allow the devil to take advantage of you

when you sin.

What are you doing staying down? I once heard the story of an eagle that was hatched among a group of chickens. It learned to eat and walk, talk and eat like a chicken until one day it saw another eagle. Something within it said, “This is who I am,” and it followed the eagle and flew away. It saw a reflection of itself in the other eagle and instantly knew it could do the same. You have the capability of rising again and again. You are not meant to stay in a fallen state because you are born of God.

her but instead told her to go and sin no more. God loves you so much and is not condemning you. He believes in you and knows you cannot stay down. Bible scholars think this woman later became one of the supporters of Jesus’ ministry. God has so much in store for you and much for you to accomplish—rise and fulfill your purpose.

A righteous man is not fashioned to stay down; you are fashioned to soar like an eagle.

1 John 5:4 in The New Life Version Bible says, “Every child of God has power over the sins of the world. The way we have power over the sins of the world is by our faith”. Glory, as a child of God, you have power over sin.

Do you find yourself struggling with sin and not knowing what to do? You have been redeemed, delivered, and forgiven. Do not buy into the devil’s lie that “this is how God made me, this is my thorn in the flesh, or I cannot rise from this.” The power of sin has been destroyed in your life, and you can rise again. You have the seed of God within you. Someone once said the devil was not sure that Adam and Eve would fall for his lies and was surprised, they believed him. If the devil knew what to do to become like God, he would have done it. That was what Satan wanted that he was thrown out of heaven. Do not believe the devil’s lies—you can rise again. If God encourages us to forgive one another four hundred and ninety times, how much more will He forgive us: even up to a million times a day, if needed.

Romans 8:1 says, “There is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus.” Jesus is not condemning you; pick yourself up and run again. In John 8, we see the story of a woman caught in the act of adultery. She was brought before Jesus, and her punishment according to Mosaic law was to be stoned to death. Jesus did not condemn

If you are currently fallen and need help, you can follow these steps to rise again:

1. Repent, confess, and ask God for forgiveness of your sins (1 John 1:9).

2. Live and confess your new realities in Christ Jesus (2 Corinthians 5:17).

3. Pray for help from God (Matthew 24:41).

4. Resolve to yield to the help of the Holy Spirit (Romans 8:18).

5. Study the Word of God regularly (Psalm 119:11).

6. Take charge of your thoughts (Philippians 4:8)

7. Build a supportive community (Hebrews 10:25)

So, what are you waiting for? Brace up, arise, and shine again. You are made for the mountaintop, not the valley. God knows you may fall and has made provision for you to rise again. Falling, though unfortunate, is not the worst thing that can happen to you. The worst thing is to remain in your fallen state. By staying down, you are crucifying Christ again and making void the finished works of Christ on Calvary. My friends, you can rise again. Rise up and enjoy life.

BEHIND THE PULPIT

AN INTERVIEW WITH PASTOR DANIEL AJAYI-ADENIRAN

SOMEONE ONCE SAID that if you give a professor the mic, he is likely to deliver a lecture; if you give a pastor the mic, he is more than likely to preach a sermon. In this segment, “Unfiltered,” where we interview pastors, leaders, and other ministers, we have only one rule: No sermons or preaching; instead, share insights you wouldn’t share from the pulpit.

We are delighted to conduct an interview with one of our spiritual fathers here in RCCG, the Americas 1, Pastor Daniel Ajayi-Adeniran(PDAA). Pastor Daniel is not only a regional pastor in the mission, overseeing six states, but he is also recognized as one of the Assistant Continental Overseers (ACO) in charge of church planting.

Q: Pastor, we are delighted and grateful that you made time for us. Please start by telling us what motivates you to plant churches.

A: To adequately answer this question, I need to take you back to 1999 when we were the only parish in the Bronx, New York, and the second parish in New York State. The General Overseer of this mission, Pastor E.A. Adeboye, visited us at our parish. At that time, our humble congregation had outgrown the building it was meant to reside in, so discussions about moving into a larger space were ongoing. Our

G.O. gave very clear instructions: he said that we should ensure to leave a church behind when we move out. I followed that instruction to the letter. Thank God for our leader, who not only leads by command but also by demonstration. Even though the instruction didn’t make any physical sense, it was easier to follow his guidance because he had demonstrated the effectiveness of church planting in the past. In the process, something “magical” happened. I discovered a new passion and happiness. I felt like a kid tasting candy for the first time; I had stumbled upon something sweet for my soul. In the end, church planting wasn’t just about merely following instructions; I derived great joy from it, far more than I can express with words. It’s that joy that keeps me perpetually going.

Q: How do you define success in church planning, and which strategies do you employ to achieve it?

A: Well, to put it simply, success is defined by accomplishing a vision. However, the vision is not mine to define; the mission already had a vision in place long before I joined the church, so I followed it to the core despite being called crazy by many. In terms of strategy, like Nehemiah, you must first identify the need. I personally map out zip codes and do research; for example, if there are only 10 people in a zip code

and there’s already an RCCG there, then there’s probably no need for a second. However, if there are 100,000 people in a zip code and there are 4 RCCGs already, it is still necessary to add a 5th. Statistics show that if 5 Christians from Africa, specifically Nigeria, are coming to America, there’s a very high probability that 3 of them are Redeemites or are associated with Redeem in some way. So, there’s a strong demand in that aspect. Sometimes, when they arrive, I receive phone calls saying there’s no Redeem in their area. If they were workers back home, that helps because every worker is trained as a potential pastor. If they are ready to do the work, even from a living room, we can start a parish. Otherwise, I would have to look from within and send out pastors to launch a parish in that area. One of the strategies is not just to invite people to church but to take the church to the people. I will share a short anecdote about how Redeem started in a small nation called Belize.

In 2008, I received a phone call from someone saying he was calling from Belize and wanted to speak to Pastor Fadel (back then, it was Pastor Fadele). That was the first time I had heard of a place called Belize. I asked what Belize was, and he said it was a country in Central America. So, I said Pastor Fadel is in Texas; I can give you his number, or is there anything I could assist you with? This person then said that there were a few Redeemites in the area but no church where they could fellowship. I realized it was a divine appointment because even if he had reached Pastor Fadel first, he would have inevitably still been redirected to me. Within two months, I traveled to Belize and held a meeting at a hotel with 75 people, which launched the first parish there. Today, we have over 14 parishes there in a nation of about 400,000 people; I can’t glorify God enough!

Q: How do you ensure that new parishes and all parishes under your jurisdiction stay aligned with the mission and vision of the denomination?

A: By the grace of God, I joined the board of the Americas in 2002, and one thing I can say is that it’s all about leadership, understanding, and communication. For example, someone who was a procrastinator before salvation would probably still be a procrastinator after being saved. It would take thorough discipline or divine intervention to change that. One thing that must be emphasized is that loyalty is non-negotiable, even in the circular world. As leaders, we must first bring ourselves to their level to relate to them, but over time, the goal is for them to rise from where they are. People will always have something to complain about; whenever there are positives, there are likely to be negatives as well. As long as those “negatives” are more of a personal preference and not contrary to the word of God or the church doctrine, we are likely to overlook them. Even psychologically speaking, positive reinforcement produces better results than chastisement. Before I joined the mission, I attended other churches, and I observed that because the church is made up of people and there are no perfect people, therefore, there can not be a perfect church until Jesus comes. However, of all the churches I have attended, I can say that RCCG is very unique in that we have a lot of freedom to operate; our general overseer is a unique and amazing father who is open

to communication and discussion. No senior pastor is going to come to your door and ask you to shut down the church. As far as I can remember, only one person has left RCCG under my leadership. He left because he erred in doctrine. He was burning candles on the altar and claimed it was the seven golden lamps in the book of Revelation, contrary to the mission’s doctrines.

Q: Statistics show that finance is one of the main obstacles in church planting. How have you managed to overcome it?

We must prayerfully find out the needs of the community where the church is located, and in our quest to meet these needs, we will be able to reach out to souls

A: RCCG operates with a DIY(do it yourself) model. This means that although a pastor can be launched out with some financial support, that support usually lasts for only a short time. The expectation is that the church will become self-sustaining. If we examine Nehemiah’s model again, we can derive the order of priority regarding building God’s house. There was a passion for it, followed by prayer, and then he proceeded to the palace to seek assistance. Because his passion was for the interest of God and not for his own glory, God honored his efforts and provided what was needed. I learn this from our General Overseer, who rarely discusses provision, ability, or capability. Instead, he emphasizes availability, diligence, discipline, loyalty, and commitment. When the aforementioned is in place, and our motives are right, God will undoubtedly supply the necessary funds. In other words, we need to take a step of faith. Our General Overseer

exemplifies this well; he has emptied his account, given away his gratuity, and denied himself and his family any available comforts in Lagos to move to the jungle that is now Redemption City for the sake of the ministry. If it worked for him, it will definitely work for us, his children, too. Personally, when I came to this country, all I had was $20. Although I was a parish pastor back home in Nigeria, I wasn’t sent out as a missionary. I had no financial backing from home or abroad, but I was being driven by passion, I did not relent. I initially took on labor, taxi, and security jobs to support the parish. While we are not there yet, to the glory of God, we can confidently say that we are in a better place now.

Q: The former president of Nigeria, President Buhari, stated that after his presidency, he will return to farming because it’s easier to lead/manage cows than to lead people. We know that leadership can undoubtedly be exhausting. How do you manage your personal health and prevent burnout?

A: Although my parents gave me all they had to offer, their all was not as much as others. Due to humble beginnings, I am accustomed to living a simple life, and that simplicity has played a major role in how I live. By the grace of God, I know how to control my appetite; I exercise and listen to my body. Sometimes, when my body says to slow down, that’s exactly what I do. This has prevented me from experiencing burnout for the past three decades, and I have never gone on a vacation. Even when I travel, I ensure I am still doing something for the Lord, no matter how small.

Q: When human nature gets the better of us, we tend to see

new churches as competition. How do you foster unity among old and new churches, and what role does the old church play in planting new ones?

A: From a businessman’s perspective, business is all about profit-making. No sane person enters business without the desire to make a profit. When a church is established, it is expected to bear fruit. Therefore, I don’t plant new churches in deserts; I ensure they are situated in fertile ground. During the planting process, I try to familiarize myself with other churches in the neighborhood because we are one body at the end of the day. The fruits we aim to bear are souls. I always try to convey the message that each church has its own peculiarity and particular assignments to accomplish where it’s planted besides the general mandate of souls winning. We must prayerfully find out the needs of the community where the church is located, and in our quest to meet these needs, we will be able to reach out to souls in the community. The more variety of churches there are, the better because people won’t have the opportunity to miss out. They will have different churches to make their choice. Thus, I always say that as churches, we are meant to complement each other, not compete with one another.

Q: Parents are extremely alert and sensitive regarding their children. A mere rise in a child’s temperature causes unease for the parents, as it indicates that something might be wrong. What are some signs and indicators in churches that, when present, you can conclude that things aren’t going well with that church and that it needs some attention?

A: As a regional pastor by the mercies of

God, I get a monthly report and I look through it. The first signal is the attendance. Once it starts going down, it calls for attention. When this happens, It could be that the relationship between the pulpit and the pew is distorted. It could also be a result of people relocating from one location or city to another. RCCG is majorly an immigrant church. So, members keep moving from one city to another in a quest for greener pastures. One other major reason for church attendance dwindling is spiritual attacks. The adversary of the church is on a mission to kill, steal, and destroy. The church must be united to keep him away from the church at all times.

Q: Are there young adults involved with church planting? If so, what are their roles, and what can others do to join?

A: By God’s grace, a few young adults are involved in church planting. Some are very passionate about worship, attempting conferences and services they can benefit from. However, when it comes to sacrificing and denying themselves comfort like the fathers and older generation did, it becomes a big challenge. The young people want a state-of-the-art sanctuary that is well-equipped before they can launch out as a parish. They can take risks with other businesses expecting a potential return, but it’s different when it comes to church planting.

them out. We have a few pastors who have been able to identify young adults with a passion to lead as pastors of youth churches under their leadership, and they launched them out as parish pastors.

Q: What are your goals for church planting this year?

A: I want to see our churches grow, particularly young adult churches. I also want to see young adults starting new parishes. Our General Overseer, Daddy E.A. Adeboye, gave us a mandate to start a new set of youth churches called RCCG, New Breed, in 2019 before COVID-19 struck the earth in 2020. Presently, we have 12 parishes in different cities in the US. God used Daddy E A Adeboye through CMB and a group of partners raised by Pastor Funso Odesola to finance the vision. These 12 parishes have been divided into three groups and saddled with the task of starting at least one parish per ground this year by God’s grace.

I strongly believe that church planting is our major source of strength, and we must keep planting churches until the vision God gave our GO is fulfilled.

There are some pastors who, when they recognize this desire in their young adults, partner with them and send

I strongly believe that church planting is our major source of strength, and we must keep planting churches until the vision God gave our General Overseer, Pastor E. A. Adeboye, is fulfilled. The vision is that in every developed nation, there must be parishes of RCCG within five minutes walking distance, and in every developing nation, there must be parishes of RCCG within five minutes driving distance. I know with the help of God, we will achieve this goal in Jesus’ name.

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